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I feel like C R A P!!!!
Ok so I am trying to remain all chipper and cheery, well it's not working! I have been a hormonal cranky whiney mess the past week! WTF??/ I am usually so let's look on the bright side kinda girl! UM NO not right now! I mean I know hormones and stuff but I feel really bad that I can't stand ANYONE right now, I yell at the boys, cringe at the husband, hate my job, dreading class! I really hope it passes, because when I'm not aggrevated with every possible thing, I wan t to cry :(
Not to mention I have had really bad BH contractions, but now my lower back hurts, every step I take feels like someone is taking a knife and stabbing me with it! OK so I'm done, just wonder if anyone else is ready to hurt somthing! LOL
Not to mention I have had really bad BH contractions, but now my lower back hurts, every step I take feels like someone is taking a knife and stabbing me with it! OK so I'm done, just wonder if anyone else is ready to hurt somthing! LOL
Mandy, yeah i know...the main thing is that i am just so disappointed because i DID want to get everything new...but you are right as long as this lil lady has all the love she can handle and all the basics all should be fine.
as far as bf....well if i have to make Sh*t hit the fan....he will get covered in it...lmao
as far as bf....well if i have to make Sh*t hit the fan....he will get covered in it...lmao
Joyce I don't even have a room for my baby, there will be six of us in a 3 bed house, so you're not alone on that front, with regards to the furniture and such! It doesn't matter if the baby has everything new, all it needs is love and care, which we'll have bundles of. You wanna give that bf a reality check, shape up or ship out, he won't go anywhere, believe me, but he might get his butt into gear if he knows you mean business!
thanks kiki... i am still feeling real nauseas when i get up to pee in the night.. but i have my economy size bottle of Maalox at my bed side. i keep thinking of how little 3 months is and i really hope that you and everyone is right, that they should still bond well regardless of when he "meets" her. my daughter was up throughout the night throwing up, no fever, but very sick...am wondering if it is the same thing i had on friday. the worst of it is that at one point she didnt make it to the bathroom, and guess who had to clean it up???? MOM of course cause bf apparently has a weak stomach....but i am PREGNANT and even the thought of "grown up" vomit makes me want to barf. but this is MY daughter and so i did what needed to be done and have been nauseas ever since. and of course really wasnt able to go back to sleep after that (and that was at 4am) and then i had to start getting my boys up around 6:30 or so to get ready for school, and apparently my oldest son slept wrong and so he was tossing a temper tantrum cause his neck hurt.... OMG do these people not realise that i am NOT in the best of moods, i dont get the priveledge of going back to bed most mornings unless i am out and out sick....and so by thier bedtime i am whooped and cranky and ready to KILL something or someone...preferably the bf that sleeps til 2pm....ugh
sorry i rant and complain so much, i mean when he is awake he sometimes does nice things like run to store for gingerale and chicken broth when i was sick...but most of the time i feel like he is a selfish sob and that i can do all of this so much better by myself...BUT i am going in for a csection and then a couple months later a hernia repair...so i kinda need him around until i am done with surgeries and can heal... i know i know that sounds soooo bad. but shoot it is time for him to earn his keep... lmao... because of economy he hasnt had a job in what seems like FOREVER and so it is my unemployment that has been taking care of bills and such and my taxes that will continue to take care of bills which means i dont get to buy brand new crib and changing table instead i have to settle with whatever i can find in preg resourse centers.... it completely bites... hmmmm maybe i should take this to the 3rd tri B session...lmao
sorry i just feeling cruddy today and very emotional and moody and whatever else you want to call it. as i tell bf when he says stuff like "why are you acting like a B" and i tell him "because i am PREGNANT and i CAN, thats why....so leave me alone..." lol
hugs and luv ladies... hopefully this stage too will pass
sorry i rant and complain so much, i mean when he is awake he sometimes does nice things like run to store for gingerale and chicken broth when i was sick...but most of the time i feel like he is a selfish sob and that i can do all of this so much better by myself...BUT i am going in for a csection and then a couple months later a hernia repair...so i kinda need him around until i am done with surgeries and can heal... i know i know that sounds soooo bad. but shoot it is time for him to earn his keep... lmao... because of economy he hasnt had a job in what seems like FOREVER and so it is my unemployment that has been taking care of bills and such and my taxes that will continue to take care of bills which means i dont get to buy brand new crib and changing table instead i have to settle with whatever i can find in preg resourse centers.... it completely bites... hmmmm maybe i should take this to the 3rd tri B session...lmao
sorry i just feeling cruddy today and very emotional and moody and whatever else you want to call it. as i tell bf when he says stuff like "why are you acting like a B" and i tell him "because i am PREGNANT and i CAN, thats why....so leave me alone..." lol
hugs and luv ladies... hopefully this stage too will pass
Goodness Joyce you do have your hands full! i'm sorry dear. I think that the kids will do fine. She will still be very little. Just make sure when your son gets home after such a long time away that you are able to give him the bulk of the attention, so he dosen't get jealous.
well i was sick friday and was up from 2-8 am... throwing up.... so bad that i noticed today that it caused a large blood vessel pop in my right eye (had REALLY bad dry heaves)
i always go to bed alone as bf stays up all night watching movies or playing poker on his computer. so as long as i can fall asleep i am good. although since i was so sick the other day when i get up to pee i feel nauseas (i think it is heartburn kicking in) and have to take a slug of anti acid.... TUMS doesnt work so when i was sick my bf went and bought Pepto which i did not know that prolonged use could actually hurt the baby...so today i bought a HUGE bottle of Maalox which i checked with the pharacist and she said it was fine. the reason for no pepto is it is asprin based i guess.
anyhow there are times i feel like crying all day (especially when my belly isnt feeling good) and other times when i just feel so bitchy that i could kill anything with a well uh yeah.... anyhow lets just say anything with a third leg (LOL)
i am not sure what is going on with my son's summer vacation yet, but of course my ex and his family wants to know NOW as to where he is being picked up, ect... Well from what i can gather i am gonna end up having this little girl on June 5th which is the day BEFORE my son is suppose to go to NC for the ENTIRE summer. so IF i have to do it that way i guess i will have to arrange for my ex to pick my son up AT the hospital so he can at least SEE his baby sister before leaving for 3 months. ugh this is horrible and unless i want to drive 3 hours round trip for court hearings and such there is not much that i can do about it... and it really bites cause i would like to have my son be able to bond with his sister.... is there more chances of sibling rivalry if she doesnt really meet him until she is 3 months old???
anyhow most of my stuff is due to some major stress and hopefully will pass... OH am also VERY VERY VERY forgetful... i think i would forget my head if it wasnt attached...lol
i always go to bed alone as bf stays up all night watching movies or playing poker on his computer. so as long as i can fall asleep i am good. although since i was so sick the other day when i get up to pee i feel nauseas (i think it is heartburn kicking in) and have to take a slug of anti acid.... TUMS doesnt work so when i was sick my bf went and bought Pepto which i did not know that prolonged use could actually hurt the baby...so today i bought a HUGE bottle of Maalox which i checked with the pharacist and she said it was fine. the reason for no pepto is it is asprin based i guess.
anyhow there are times i feel like crying all day (especially when my belly isnt feeling good) and other times when i just feel so bitchy that i could kill anything with a well uh yeah.... anyhow lets just say anything with a third leg (LOL)
i am not sure what is going on with my son's summer vacation yet, but of course my ex and his family wants to know NOW as to where he is being picked up, ect... Well from what i can gather i am gonna end up having this little girl on June 5th which is the day BEFORE my son is suppose to go to NC for the ENTIRE summer. so IF i have to do it that way i guess i will have to arrange for my ex to pick my son up AT the hospital so he can at least SEE his baby sister before leaving for 3 months. ugh this is horrible and unless i want to drive 3 hours round trip for court hearings and such there is not much that i can do about it... and it really bites cause i would like to have my son be able to bond with his sister.... is there more chances of sibling rivalry if she doesnt really meet him until she is 3 months old???
anyhow most of my stuff is due to some major stress and hopefully will pass... OH am also VERY VERY VERY forgetful... i think i would forget my head if it wasnt attached...lol
hkenny~ my DH is a snoring machine too! So I totally feel you. You seriously can take a Tylenol PM a few nights a week to catch up on some sleep. YOU need your rest. If you don't feel comfortable with that tell your OB how hard it is, he can even prescribe somthing like Lunesta or Ambian. They do here in the States anyways. I would not want to take it every night but every couple or so, you have to get a full nights sleep.
My back pain feels so much better today, I've just been a cry baby. My oldest son and I got in a fight so we both ended up crying.
My back pain feels so much better today, I've just been a cry baby. My oldest son and I got in a fight so we both ended up crying.
Wow!! I think we must all be really feeling like this third trimester thing is going to be rough!!! I am sleeping okay, other than the peeing every hour or so... I read that if you can get all your water in before 6pm, then don't drink anything after that, and it can help, but I can't seem to drink 5+ bottles of water before 6pm myself... plus... I try to get in bed around 9 so I guess I'll just keep peeing all night...
ClaireLou, I am having that same sharp pain, and I can actually feel his head down there bumping around, so I think it is just something we have to deal with... I did notice that if I lean back and lift him up with my hands, the pain is not there, so maybe just try a different position, like on the opposite side of where he is bumping you... I also sometimes try to get Asa to move a little bit, he usually moves, but eventually goes right back to the same spot!!!
ClaireLou, I am having that same sharp pain, and I can actually feel his head down there bumping around, so I think it is just something we have to deal with... I did notice that if I lean back and lift him up with my hands, the pain is not there, so maybe just try a different position, like on the opposite side of where he is bumping you... I also sometimes try to get Asa to move a little bit, he usually moves, but eventually goes right back to the same spot!!!
aww you poor things! i havint been sleeping too bad actally, which makes a change lol,i still fall asleep on my back :S the only problem when trying to sleep is Alister will just kick and kick and will just do it for ages feels like hours lol!, like he has a big burst of energy when i relax, bless him!
But other then that ive just been so emotional, i have been crying alot recently over nothing really, like when DF doesnt put his dirty plate in the dishwasher or keeps his dirty socks laying on the floor! i get so teary! its ridiculous! but Graham is so understanding its amazing! i dont think i could cope if he was like that lol!
Oh and fri 13th had to go to hospital because ive got this horrible pain on the right side of my belly, if you put a little bit of pressure on it, it kills, and i was abit worried as Alister only moved in the morning like twice and it was 6pm and still nothing, so midwife asked me to come in and she poked my belly so hard i could of cried, she just kept poking the same spot the kills, and she to blood rpessure ,HB etc and everything was fine no u/s tho, and just said she thinks its Alisters head or bum hitting a nerve, well 3days later still have major pain dont know what to do!
SORRY THAT WAS ABIT LONG!
But other then that ive just been so emotional, i have been crying alot recently over nothing really, like when DF doesnt put his dirty plate in the dishwasher or keeps his dirty socks laying on the floor! i get so teary! its ridiculous! but Graham is so understanding its amazing! i dont think i could cope if he was like that lol!
Oh and fri 13th had to go to hospital because ive got this horrible pain on the right side of my belly, if you put a little bit of pressure on it, it kills, and i was abit worried as Alister only moved in the morning like twice and it was 6pm and still nothing, so midwife asked me to come in and she poked my belly so hard i could of cried, she just kept poking the same spot the kills, and she to blood rpessure ,HB etc and everything was fine no u/s tho, and just said she thinks its Alisters head or bum hitting a nerve, well 3days later still have major pain dont know what to do!
SORRY THAT WAS ABIT LONG!
i know how you feel, i get NO SLEEP either, and when i start to fall asleep i have to get up to pee. it drives me nuts and my bf so he sleeps downstairs on the couch as well since i've been pregnant. good luck and hope you get some sleep tonight..... i think i'm finally getting use to not getting ne sleep.
I am about ready to lose my mind!!!!!! I have not been having a great time sleeping and the last 2 nights were both very bad. I dont think I slept at all. My husband wanted to snuggle on valentines night so I let him sleep with me ( he snores like no ones business so normally he tucks me in and goes and sleeps in the spare room, this only started one I was prego since I seem to have a way harder time falling asleep) anyways ya I didnt get any sleep, finally switched rooms myself at 3 am and coudlnt get to sleep. Last night my inlaws were here so the vacant bed was not vacant, I went to the couch at 5 am and could still here him snoring, I even put ear plugs in. He had an alarm go off on his phone which I lost it on him for ( its a holiday here today, family day) and even after I took to the couch I heard it go off and had to go turn it off for him. He kept hitting snooze, I was soooooooo mad!!! I know its hard but he always does that b/c he is a very sound sleeper and doesnt register that I want it off not snoozed. He gets mad that I can sleep b/c I get mad at him! I just want to sleep and dont know what to do!! I cant fuction another day with no sleep. He defiantly is NOT Sleeping with me tonight. Not even a snuggle b/c with my luck he'll fall asleep and I'll have to move.
Mine rests everywhere that is irritating! LOL I have a very short torso, so love her heart she has to make room!
OH and my new heating pad is now my best freind! I say if you don't already have one, it is a must! Funny thing I ran to target to get it, and ran into my OB! I love him, After he scolded me for being out shopping ( I'm still supposed to be on rest) I told him I had to go out b/c I needed a heating pad! As I shook it at him he laughed, and said if I didn't get my butt home I was in trouble. He also got me nervous b/c he was concearned with the pain with the BH that has been pretty bad for about 3 or 4 days now, so I have to see him tomorrow, if the pain is not eleviated by the heating pad ~ So far so good! But I did listen like a good girl and came strait home and rested, it seemed to have helped!
OH and my new heating pad is now my best freind! I say if you don't already have one, it is a must! Funny thing I ran to target to get it, and ran into my OB! I love him, After he scolded me for being out shopping ( I'm still supposed to be on rest) I told him I had to go out b/c I needed a heating pad! As I shook it at him he laughed, and said if I didn't get my butt home I was in trouble. He also got me nervous b/c he was concearned with the pain with the BH that has been pretty bad for about 3 or 4 days now, so I have to see him tomorrow, if the pain is not eleviated by the heating pad ~ So far so good! But I did listen like a good girl and came strait home and rested, it seemed to have helped!
WOW!!! Ladies, I am so sorry... not that that really helps or anything... I don't THINK I've been too awfully/abnormally moody, but my back, hips and tailbone are hurting really bad... today, my little Asa has some part of his body pressing on something down low on my right side that feels like a sharp pinching... I was going to ask if anyone else had their baby resting on some part of your internals that is really irritating??
I am soooo glad to hear i am not alone with all these issues....The only person i have been able to stand lately is my DH (lucky for him). I am pretty sure that everyone i work with is just counting down the days until i go on maternity leave!! Not too mention that i can't harldly stand to sit at my desk all day b/c my back and pelvis are killing me. It gets to the point that i feel like i can't walk b/c i am having sooo much pain "downstairs". Now to add to it I have an awful chest cold that kicked in full force last night i didn't sleep at all!
Tarrah-
I am right there with you...I checked my email this morning and burst into tears when i saw the huge list of things babies r us is discontinuing off my registry. My DH just wants me to go ahead and order everything i wan't, but i am soooo stressed about money these days that i don't know if i can bring myself to do it. I guess my only other option is to change what i want, but that is not an easy thing for me to do!
I guess the only bright lining to this is that i FINALLY made it below 100 days...YAY for only 99 days left :)
Tarrah-
I am right there with you...I checked my email this morning and burst into tears when i saw the huge list of things babies r us is discontinuing off my registry. My DH just wants me to go ahead and order everything i wan't, but i am soooo stressed about money these days that i don't know if i can bring myself to do it. I guess my only other option is to change what i want, but that is not an easy thing for me to do!
I guess the only bright lining to this is that i FINALLY made it below 100 days...YAY for only 99 days left :)
Well I hate to say I'm glad I'm not alone!
Tarrah ~ I totally feel you, all my stuff got clearanced at Target, and I ended up buying every peice myself ~ including my swing, play yard, and travel system that MIL wanted to buy, well I told her It was goning to be gone ( just the travel system ) I've already bought the rest myself, well she waited 3 weeks ~ after telling me she already ordered it!!! well then she calls and tells me how sorry she is that it was OUT OF STOCK everywhere! Are you F'ing kidding me??? So DH and I went on-line and sure enough EVERYONE was out of stock, Finally on Ebay we found 1. It was a bidded thing and we paid too much for it, but after 5 hours of internet searching I'm pretty sure it was our last option! But all is well my husband came through for me :) Now she want to give us the money for it, I'm tempted to tell her to shove it up her A$$!!!
Well I did have a nice evening last night, so I felt a little better, the kids went to stay at their grandpa's, and hubby made me a platter of choc. covered fruit, that would make anyone happy! AND he did find my stroller which I have been livid over the past few days, so at least today is starting out better!
FUN TIMES, FUN TIMES!
Tarrah ~ I totally feel you, all my stuff got clearanced at Target, and I ended up buying every peice myself ~ including my swing, play yard, and travel system that MIL wanted to buy, well I told her It was goning to be gone ( just the travel system ) I've already bought the rest myself, well she waited 3 weeks ~ after telling me she already ordered it!!! well then she calls and tells me how sorry she is that it was OUT OF STOCK everywhere! Are you F'ing kidding me??? So DH and I went on-line and sure enough EVERYONE was out of stock, Finally on Ebay we found 1. It was a bidded thing and we paid too much for it, but after 5 hours of internet searching I'm pretty sure it was our last option! But all is well my husband came through for me :) Now she want to give us the money for it, I'm tempted to tell her to shove it up her A$$!!!
Well I did have a nice evening last night, so I felt a little better, the kids went to stay at their grandpa's, and hubby made me a platter of choc. covered fruit, that would make anyone happy! AND he did find my stroller which I have been livid over the past few days, so at least today is starting out better!
FUN TIMES, FUN TIMES!
i am the same way very moody and short tempered compared to my usual laid back and always thinking of the positive side of things and etc so no def not alone, and the bh contractions suck i hadn't had ne a few days until yesterday and they were a lil painful at times, i get aggrivated very easy like yesterday i got an e-mail from babies r us telling me 9 things on my registry were going to be discontinued and most of that was my crib set, and decorations i go so mad and was taking it out on my bf and etc then i just felt like i wanted to cry so i went to babies r us and i got 3 of the 5 things i needed that were marked down and found the rest at walmart.com thank god.... but ne ways i'm done rambling for now lol
I'm with you too! Let's see... sore boobs, sore wrists, permanent diarrhea, no bladder control, migraines, sour stomach, heartburn, painful ribs, struggling to pay the bills, permanently shouting at husband over something or other, feeling old and tired... I could go on and on and on... so no, you're not alone, it's just the joys of motherhood and being a woman!!
ME TOO!! I have been sooo moody and bitchy the last few days. Poor DH doesnt know what hit him. I feel bad and apoligize and then he does something to set me off again! My back is killing me too and my inlaws are coming this weekend so I have been trying to get things ready for them and I feel like ****. I just want to sit and be cranky. I guess this is our welcome to the 3rd trimester?? LOL
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