My daughter was in the room when I gave birth to my son. She had told me that she didn't want to see me cry or hear me yell so I tried extra hard to hold it all in. After she asked me four seperate times if I was hurting, "because it looks like it hurts real bad" I made her sit in a chair on the other side of the room so that I wouldn't slap her.
We'll see how much she likes that question when she pops out her 1st kid. Afterall, grandmas never forget having been moms. :-)
oh i laugh when they fall or get hurt,i cant help it,their such drama queens!! i do try hide it but if i actually see them fall it can be so funny that you cant help but laugh out loud.i cant wait to see how they react when they have kids
Ahh ha!! I am not alone!!
My daughter & Baby Daddy will tell you I'm the most heartless mom ever, pregnant or not. LoL. My son has a scar on the back of his head from where he jumped off our bed backwards & hit the entertainment center. He was a year & a half old at the time. I waited 45 minutes to take him to the ER after calling his dad at work to ask if he thought I should. He got 6 staples put in his head & his dad acted like it was the worst thing ever. I got an hour long speech about how he could have died & that it is a miracle that my daughter has survived, blah, blah, blah. I was like: "He's boy. Didn't you get hurt when you were a boy? Is your mom a bad mom? Leave me alone."
Don't worry about being a mean mommy. Kids get hurt & they often react based on how their parent reacts. After my son's head "trauma" I put him immediately in a bubble bath & he instantly forgot what happened. At the hospital, he was jumping all over the waiting room chairs & the gurney in the ER room. I had to keep cleaning up his blood from everywhere!! Now, if I had been in tears & falling apart he probably would have been doing the same thing.
My daughter cut her hand when she was two & I had to take her to the ER to get stitches. Her dad cried as he held her down to keep her still & I just stood there stone-faced. I don't know..I'm just not a softy with that kind of stuff. I even laugh sometimes when I spank her because she's so dramatic about it. She acts like I'm gonna beat her with whip or something. I'll never get why she doesn't learn to just stand there quietly & get it over with. I sure learned that real fast when I was a kid. Anyways, I have to walk away sometimes because I feel like a real b**ch because I can't stop laughing at how ridiculous she acts over it. She tells me that I must LOVE spanking her. She's wrong, but I see why she feels that way. Actually, I think she's trying to just guilt me out of spanking her, but I'm not gonna buy into that. Oh well, I'm sure she'll understand someday when she has kids of her own.
Kids need to know that every boo-boo isn't the end of the world & that sometimes you just need to get up & keep going. Plus, it gives dad his "Hero Moment" when he gets to kiss the boo-boo instead. :-)
congrats hope you get your lil girl!
do you also find that on some things your completly hartless? my lil one fell and was crying her lil heart out and i was just like 'whatever youl be fine its not the end of the world' HARTLESS or what! she ran to dad where she got all the hugs and kisses she was looking for.i just thought of it that night and alot more came to mind.i seem to jump from one end of the scale to the other
I'm not a cryer usually either, but I cried alot with my daughter over silly things. Didn't cry with my son so I'm guessing it's like a female-hormone-overload-thing. Yesterday, I started thinking about a co-worker who passed away in a car wreak last Monday. He was only 23 & had one brother. I started thinking about his parents & how awful their lives must be right now. Then I started thinking about my own son & I COULD NOT stop crying!! My son was right there with me & yet I could not shake the feeling that he was gone & the tears just flowed & flowed.
I'm hoping that this means there's a little pink bun in the oven because that's what we're hoping for. IDK if you're wanting blue or pink, but congrats on the little one just the same. :-)
oh god i understand
i was watching the vma's and someone was giving a speech and i started crying! lmfao
i cry at everything
my fiancee is just like "really?"
ha
it's embarrassing. but hey, you learn to put up with it.
well im glad im not alone lol
i was driving in my car afew days ago and a sad song came on,i sobbed that much i couldnt see and had to pull the car over to the side of the road.i even said please god stop me crying im so embarresed!!
sorry i cant help but laugh but im the same i cry at everything its horrid and my children pick on me for it lol they call me a sook and go and gt me a tissue i dont know if it settels down but for ur sake and mine im praying it does grats on your pregnancy best of luck :)