Pregnancy: May 2013 Babies Community
Just want to talk
About This Community:

This patient support community is for discussions relating to pregnancy, childbirth and maternity for babies due or born in May 2013.

Font Size:
A
A
A
Background:
Blank
Blank
Blank
Blank Blank

Just want to talk

Erm not aboot our little ones am suddenly paranoid, my boyfriend doesnt hide anythin from me I browse his phone well he was in the bath and I saw a new app called hot social network girls. I searched it on my phone and read about the app its not porn but its pictures of hot girls from social networks like twitter and facebook. Why does he have this app he told me he doesnt look at other girls he must not b attracted to me as much with the strech marks to have an app like this
11 Comments Post a Comment
Blank
1078034_tn?1351093285
Hes lying if he says he doesn't look at other girls... its human nature... but to act on those urges is another thing... if you found proof he was cheating then I would be worried... but if hes just looking i personally don't find it harmful and you shouldn't beat yourself up over it
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
My hubby looks at other girls all the time lol.. He had Facebook groups with pics of girls on it and what not. Boys will be boys! I know he's with me and loves our family. It doesn't bother me as long as he's not cheating on me! Like said above.. It's human nature! Don't let it bother you :)
Blank
4043310_tn?1355916247
Yeah it just made me self consious about ma body cause am no exectly lookin in shape anymore with a wee jelly belly
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
Excercise the stomach muscles when you feel up to it and the jelly belly feature will gradually get better hun. Id say wait til after your six week follow up.
Blank
4043310_tn?1355916247
Yeah am still really sore to b startin exercise I hope am all healed up soon makin maself lazy cause am no even wantin to move
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
I find it disrespectful and unnecessarily making you insecure yet you r recovering from carrying  HIS baby. If it was his normal behaviour before  and you were ok with it i would not have found it problematic. Franky, can you check if he would be ok if he was unable to be intimate with you will he be ok if you were to be admiring pics of guys in speedos or some of those saucy underwears.
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
Cher - you said it perfectly for me thanks lol. I wanted to say that too more or less but it wouldnt come out sounding "nice" lol.
Blank
4043310_tn?1355916247
Yeah its not his normal behaviour to look at picz of other girls I think thtz why its affected me more, if he did this before havin his baby I would b okay its the fact tht its just recent thtz made me feel.unattractive for him
Blank
4484425_tn?1384231934
I think it is insensitive. Guys don't realize how much being pregnant, having a baby, and then not being able to be intimate makes us insecure.
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
I agree I would probably be very hurt but not angry I swear my hormones are worse now than when I was prego. I got so sad when my bf met one of my super skinny super pretty sorta friends and added her on fb. Its like ok u were obviously thinking about her enough to look her up(prolly to check out her pics). Ugh they are so insensitive I swear. Im not even friends on fb with her. But I'm over it. We can't sweat ALL the small stuff lol
Blank
4043310_tn?1355916247
I really got to get my self out of this stinky mood av been in for the past day because of this I havent been anywhere near my boyfriend av just been goin aboot doin cleaning and takin care of amelia waitin for him to show me some affaction
Blank
Post a Comment
To
Blank
Weight Tracker
Weight Tracker
Start Tracking Now
Pregnancy: May 2013 Babies Community Resources
RSS Expert Activity
242532_tn?1269553979
Blank
How to Silence Your Inner Critic an...
Apr 16 by Roger Gould, M.D.Blank
242532_tn?1269553979
Blank
Emotional Eaters: How to Silence Yo...
Mar 26 by Roger Gould, M.D.Blank
1344197_tn?1392822771
Blank
Vaginal vs. Laparoscopic Hysterecto...
Feb 19 by J. Kyle Mathews, MD, DVMBlank
Top Pregnancy Answerers
4484425_tn?1384231934
Blank
tomorrow264
St.Paul, MN
Avatar_f_tn
Blank
missthang73