Hubby and i been married got 6 years and we were finally able to get pregnant. So its something we wanted as well. I know its not that she is hurt because she too wanted to be pregnant she knocks on wood every time someone tells her "so when is it your turn". She is still young 22 and she is still going to party it up. Im going to be 28 and well my partying days are over, well still don't mind having a girls night here and there.
So i spoke to her and she told me that she adores me and well she said things have changed "your pregnant" doesn't mean we are not friends. I just told her look just a reminder the ARMY is a small world things that are said get around pretty quick (yeah we are ARMY wives) So if you have something to say i suggest you just tell me. She said no that i have been one of her closes friends. So i left it at that. I told her look if you dont want to be my friend thats fine. I have a great life ahead of me and a baby im looking forward to hold, all of this is not going to matter. Then again if you are in my life than it can all be great.
I have had so many friends that have turned out pregnant and for 6 years hubby & tried to conceive and it didn't happen. Yes it made me sad and thought why isn't it me but never have i once turned my back or distant myself from my friends. Friends stick by your side through thick and thin. Maybe expect the same from my friends. Then again i stop and think my other friends have showed me who my true friends really are. They are the ones who stuck by my side. OK OK ill stop i think hormones and emotional stuff are being involved here lol
Is it possible that she has been trying to conceive herself, and your pregnancy is hurtful for her to be around? I came over from the infertility forum, and I know a lot of the ladies on there feel hurt when their friends become pregnant, and even distance themselves, can't go to their baby showers, etc.
Just a though, otherwise, I'm not sure. I guess I'd give it one more try, and if she won't say what the problem is, maybe one of your mutual friends can shed some light? I haven't experienced this.
Me, my husband, my cousin and his wife are really close and his wife gave me a little grief when I first told her that I was pregnant. We had alot of plans this summer, staying at the beach partying in New Orleans stuff like that...well I cant do that anymore and Im happy that Im pregnant and IM NOT gonna apologize for it. This is what me and my husband planned and worked for.... I dont think my situation is as serious as yours but still I know what you mean...its like shame on you, you got pregnant, you cant drink anymore dance you *** off like you said stuff like that. Pisses me off too!