who can't stand their mother in laws ?

[britt_n_babysonny]

My m.i.l is still breast friends with my fiancee's ex .. The girl still lives there and ive been with him for almost 2 years now .. His mom says she's like her daughter .. She's at every family party and still calls all his family mom dad aunt etc .. Its so annoying .. You would think because I'm 25 weeks things would change but nope .. Who else finds it weird ??

[britt_n_babysonny]

Ive tried talking to his mom about it but she just puts her on this high pedistool and says we don't have to be around each other but we do at funerals parties ect .. and the messed up part is when we are in the same room his family won't give me the time of day .. My fiancee has my back 100% but is a big mamas boy at the same time .. Its a screwd up situation and it is
very stressful .. If she is still in the picture I will get a restraining order so she can't be around my son .. It takes a lot not to just strangle her haha .. Thanks for letting me vent :)

[britt_n_babysonny]

Ive tried talking to his mom about it but she just puts her on this high pedistool and says we don't have to be around each other but we do at funerals parties ect .. and the messed up part is when we are in the same room his family won't give me the time of day .. My fiancee has my back 100% but is a big mamas boy at the same time .. Its a screwd up situation and it is
very stressful .. If she is still in the picture I will get a restraining order so she can't be around my son .. It takes a lot not to just strangle her haha .. Thanks for letting me vent :)

[VictoriaJanet]

I definitely would talk to his mom and to him together. Tell them flat out that you're not okay with it and if they want to have anything to do with YOUR child, she is joint to disappear from the picture because if your going through this, it is affecting the baby as well. It is not okay. You could also put a restraining order on her if she has done things that are certainly out of line.

[britt_n_babysonny]

Yeah and that's what I don't want is for her to be around my son .. He hates it, he's constantly fighting with his family about it they'll go long periods without talking but they really don't seem to care their excuse is you brought her into our lives ... Ughh I can't stand them ... But him being a mama's boy of course always forgives and the cycle continues ... What would you do ?

[DNP47]

Well if they are a part of your sons life, then she probably will be too if she stays there, I would not be ok with that. She sounds like either she is trying to hold on to a piece of him hoping maybe it will work out in the end, or she truely has no place to go.

How does your fiance feel about her and her sticking around his family?

[britt_n_babysonny]

I love my fiancee soo much I bite my tounge and put on a fake smile around them but its hard

[britt_n_babysonny]

Supposibly from what I hear her family tells her to leave his family alone but she's a physco .. None of them find it weird .. It really gets under my skin and im to the point where I don't think they should be a part of my son's life .. Too harsh ?

[DNP47]

I think its really weird, I would not appreciate that at all. Does she not have a family of her own?

You're a bigger person then I am, I could not handle that at all, especially being pregnant.