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12827277 tn?1454431435

devastated :(

Well I was 16 weeks and Sunday night my amniotic sac ended up rupturing and I had an infection with the baby being so little and there being very little fluid left there was no chance for survival so we had no choice but to abort the pregnancy. We have 3 other healthy baby girls and don't even know how to handle or feel right now. She would of been our 4th girl, we got her little feet prints. I'm doing good physically we just got home from the hospital today.
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12827277 tn?1454431435
Thank you all for the love and support. It hasn't been easy and I know with time it will get easier even though that pain will always be there. The hardest part right now is how to explain this to my girls. They knew I was sick and at the hospital but that's all they know. Any advice?
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Sorry for your loss
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My heart goes out to you. I am so so sorry. Give each of your little girls a hug and kiss. They will help keep you on track. And your little angel will always be in your heart.
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I'm sorry for your loss I know exactly how you feel I've had two 16wk losses and had the same thing happen to me this last time I was told I had an infection that caused it but I was also bleeding quite a bit throughout the pregnancy as with my first 16wk loss so I know where you're coming it's gonna be hard at first it will never truly heal but it will get better with time at least you have momentous I didn't get that with my first but did with my last and I treasure them and as soon as I'm able to I'll get them tattooed as a permanent keepsake again I'm sorry for your loss if you need to talk I'm here
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So sorry for your loss, my prayers go to you. Stay strong! X
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My prayers go to you and your family, just remember you are still blessed with the three you have.
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Sorry for your lost. God knows better than us. Keep praying, He will give you comfort!
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So sorry for your loss :'( you are in my rhoughts and prayers
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:(
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I'm so sorry for your loss! You'll be in my prayers.
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So very sorry for your loss!
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9062499 tn?1426957962
I'm so sorry for u hun
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Soo Sorry for your loss
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I am so sorry to hear that. I wish the best for you and your family.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.  This breaks my heart.
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Im so sorry for your loss. If you need someone to talk to im all ears
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I'm sorry :(
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I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers sent your way.
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