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This is my second baby.when I told my family (siblings/parents) and his family we didn't get no congrats nothing. My sisters basically scolded me and one didn't even reply and I have yet to to talk to. My thing is we have our own place and money so if we want to expand our family then we can. I'm just sad cuz no one asks how I'm feeling.when I was in the E.r they didn't bother asking why .and this past Tuesday I got hit by a car from behind and has been in pain and no one asked if I'm ok. I feel so alone. Is anyone else going through this?
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All I can tell you is I was feeling the same way and my mama and sibling and dad did some hurtful shxx to me and my daughter and I chose to stay away from my people and people who in general who can't see me happy and doing good in life yes they are our family and no matter what but some time you have to grow up and realize you Can do bad all by your self just teach your children to love one another as my family did the opposite teaching my sibling to just each other and as we got older it got worser I pray you have a healthy delivery and over look what your family is doing to you good luck and congrats on your baby ☺
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I mean teaching my siblings to ruin each other lifes
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Thank you. I am definitely trying my hardest to keep positive. They barely talk to My first daughter, haven't bought her anything and didn't even come to her first birthday party. I dont know why I'm so suprised they are treating me like this . I've always been the out cast of the family but I wouldn't imagine them treating my kids the same way.
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I'm so sorry you're going through this. Your family has no idea what they're missing out on.
If I were you I would sit them down and talk to them. Ask them what the problem is and why they treat you and your family so bad.
Do your best to stay positive and be happy. As long as you have a great relationship with your husband and your children are happy and healthy then you have everything.
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Why are they so angry?  Are they disapproving of the father of your child?
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chania,  until you are willing to explore why your family and your partner's family won't have any thing to do with you and your partner and your children,  this won't really get any better.

Your first post introduced a baffling mystery,  but your second post made it clear that you've always been estranged.

In a situation like that,  it's not a surprise that they aren't congratulating you or participating with your daughter.  

Is whatever happened in your past fixable?  Do you want to improve your family relationship,  or would it be best to create a life without your family and your partner's family?
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