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So I dated this guy on and off for 3 years.  While we were on a break I started dating someone else.  6 weeks into my new relationship I got pregnant  (got pregnant the first time we had sex). I still have contact with the guy I dated on and off for 3 years.  I have not cheated and I don't bc I am not that kind of person.  But I miss him a lot.  Lay night he was texting me about how we both messed up bc of miscommunication. Some times I feel like I should be with him. I do still love him but want to give my relationship a chance for my unborn daughter.  I am currently  29 weeks 1 days.  I wish I could get over this guy. Guess no question Just getting my thoughts out.
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I am frustrated with my current relationship bc I told my boyfriend that I don't want to feel like a single mother but I do. I have bought everything.  He has not helped with anything and there isn't anything left to buy. He drove a semi when I met him.  I was ok with that but now he decided even tho he knows I dint want him to to drive over the road so he will be home only about once a month.  Idk how he can be a part of hours only child's life seeing her once a month.  But when I was texting with my ex I asked him if it ever happened that I was single again if he would feel different  bc I have another child (he has 2 older kids and I have 2 older kids. All 4 of the kids are between 8 and 14) and he said he wasn't sure.  Made me feel upset and I cried a lot.  
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I understand completely. I dated someone for 5 years and now we're seeing other people and I'm 8 weeks pregnant. It's so hard because I miss him all the time, go with what your heart tells you to do! If after you have the baby you feel like it's meant to be id say do for it!
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