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Long story...but need advice i feel so down

So yesterday my husband and his brother and i went to a baseball game.. right in front of us were two women who were drinking having a good time then towards the end they got up and started dancing around shaking their booty obviously we were right in back of them i hadn't even paid attention to my husband starring at them like a deer in the headlights if it wasnt for me getting a text and asking my husband something and him not even paying attention to what i was telling him he was holding my son and he hadn't even noticed he was crying...he noticed i then saw him starring at them and then he was trying to act nice with me so i wouldnt be upset i know i might feel upset because of pregnancy but he always does that like hes pulling away from me and i dont know how to tell him hes been asking all day whats wrong but i just dont know how to tell him because i feel it will definitely start a fight because everything bugs him yesterday he had a few drinks at the game so he wasn't able to drive 2 hours to get home so he asked me to drive home amd stop whining how my body aches because to him it sounded like an excuse... What should i say to him so he understands because he could be so insensitive at times  
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You say "everything bugs him," it actually sounds like everything bugs you.  If my husband were so mesmerized by someone's booty that he didn't hear me talking to him or the baby crying, I'd tease him about it, not accuse him of being insensitive.  It would give me great dinner-table conversation to embarrass him with for years, what a gift!  lol  Some woman is shaking her behind right his face and he is supposed to think, "Gee, if I look at this it will hurt my wife's feelings" -- ?  That sensitive and other-oriented, no guy is.  

Also, what was he supposed to do after having drinks, drive his pregnant wife home and get a DUI?  What were you doing at the game if you were aching too much to drive?  Seriously.  I think the things you are describing are not worth giving him the silent treatment for a day about.
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