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SEX !!!!!

My husband never wants to have Sex & I want to have sex everyday ! Does he not get that once the baby gets here I won't be about to have Sex for a Long time ?!!!!!!! That makes me really upset
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Lmfao jennjacks porn has been my only route so far lol and the shower head sadly.. it just ***** that being pregnant you get so horny and turned on by something just rubbing against you! Its just terrible!! Maybe we can sneak viagra into there meal or drink and hope for the best lmfao!
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Omg MegaPrego I was thinking the same thing . Bringing a female into the bedroom. But I'm not bi-curious or anything but it it's not cheating to my man I'll do what I have to ! & Yes does nothing when your craving the real Deal . But I've found that porn is entertaining to watch .! I've been doing that a lot . No Judging anyone !!!!!!
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Jennjacks im glad im not the only one in this situation! I mean I just dint understand are we unattractive? Are we doing something wrong? And trust me no toy does what my man can but damn it give it up already! Im on the verge of finding a female and getting it on! He always said a woman isnt cheating so im about to get my female on!
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Mine is the other way around. My husband wants sex but I dont.. it hurts me and im not comfortable doing it. Not cuz im scared for my baby but because no position feels right.. and with all this I feel like a horrible wife cuz I cant give my husband what he wants. And I know its aggravating for him, I know he has needs cuz he is a man I just dont know what to do....
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My man is an anal guy too. I really want to find new ways for us to have sex. I don't like when our sex starts getting boring any positions u guys have? Lol seriously I'm 30w. And need sex while my man still wants me.
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I been wanting sex here lately but I am scared it will put me into labor ive already been in pre labor iam 30 Weeks but I've been taking Medicine that my Doctor gave me to Help stop the Contractions from coming back But it scares me and the Other part is I like Being on Top and I cant Anymore Because of my belly its in the way
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It's So crazy & I'm Married ! It's like pleasure me or I'll think about giving it to someone who wants to have Sex with me


Don't get me wrong ladies ,!! I would never ever ever cheat but it feels like the right thing to say when I'm mad about him not giving me Sex !!!

Toys would do me no Good I need the Real Deal holy field lol !

Fact of the matter is I Want SEXXXXXXX LOL
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I Completly understand megaPrego , we're in the exact same boat . I want him to want to do it but that would be like waiting for the world to End
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6921132 tn?1411393725
This is my 4th pregnancy and he never has thought he would hurt the baby.. he loves having sex with me pregnant or not!! Tmi but he says the vagina feels awesome wen pregnant lol... Men are different.
And it depends on them how the see and handle things also.  
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For awhile i couldnt have sex with mine and for some reason it made him want me more and i felt bad bc it was putting my daughter's life in danger, i gave in a few times but now im allowed to have sex and he's like oh why do you wanna do so many freaky things now. He still want to every time i do but i see me putting more of the effort now. Sorry to the lady's that dont get any. Try grabbing his part firmly ;)
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9442948 tn?1406816451
Does he think hes going to hurt the baby?
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Well I can't keep my husband off of me lol I guess men are just different! A blessing nd a curse! Hope everything gets better love he'll come around :)
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Im in the same boat! My finance rarely wants to have sex with me. And as it is I feel SO unattractive.. and when he says no to me it makes me feel worse. I don't know what to do. Ive tried pleasing him first and trying to turn him om but I swear he starts thinking of his grandma or something because he gets hard but then gets soft immedently... he always says "later, not right now im relaxing" he makes it sound like its a chore to have sex with me and it makes me feel like ****.. I mean dont get me wrong I get laid.. but I have to force it on him and almost make him have sex with me. After we get going he sends ti enjoy it but I just want hun to initiate it sometimes ya know?  I don't always wanna feel like in making him have sex eith me.. I want hun to just grab me and drag me into the room and start something awesome for once instead of me dragging him in there and jumping on him! But also I feel like if I just wait for him to make a move id be waiting for the world to end! He just doesnt seem to understand that when the baby comes there's not going to be a lot of sex!  And hes not going to be able to just ********** inside of me every time... man if I was a man I would be going everyday 100x a day! Im a female and 28 weeks pregnant and I want it everyday 2x a day! I think its time to invest in a toy ladies!! It's great to know I'm not the only one going threw this on my own..
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No biggie Elma :)
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You women are So lucky , I'm So jealous ! Maybe things will change if not I'll start to think he's just Not that into me Anymore !
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I ment your husband not boyfriend sorry :)
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I can not imagine how you feel right now! :( I am 36weeks pregnant and we still have as much sex as we have had in our 3 years of relationship, even more now :) so i guess i am very lucky, have you talked to your boyfriend about this? And have you told him how this makes you feel? :/
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Lol my hubby wants it every day and bso do i so its amazinggggg maybe just make him feel more comfortable
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8788738 tn?1409772164
Your lucky ! Lol My boyfriend stays glued on me :( and now that I'm super huge i don't want to have sex at all.  But he won't understand that. The beginning of my pregnancy i was horny all the time but once I got into my 20th week I wanted to stop completely. But noooooooooo -.- I'm almost 34 weeks and he still wants to do it.
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Lord!!! Icant keep my man off me.. !!!
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Well Thanks ladies . I don't think he's scared of hurting the baby I just think I've turned him off . After I have my child he's gonna with he gave me some .! & as far *** oral ! This is my time ! These 9months are MINES . I don't mean to sound selfish but Hey I have gotta any oral in a while so forget him n his penis ! I need some pleasure  
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Mine is same .. Not had sex is 3 months I do only have a few weeks left to go but I feel lik pullin my hair out.. If he is that afraid all the pleasurin in the world won't help trust me I have tried everythin!!
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Mine has told me he finds pregnancy very attractive and he'll never think less of me and will always be attracted to me. One of thr bigger issues I have is that it seems I'm always the one that takes initiative to start it. I want to feel wanted, this has been a problem for probably about 10 months now and I've told him how I feel and just get the same thing "I love you and want you and will always find you sexy no matter what and I know I need to get better at showing it."
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7792797 tn?1413503184
As a previous post I am quite thankful hubby and I still do it quite often and im due in 3 wks... and as she stated-try to pleasure him first. I do oral or just sometimes rub his chest and kiss him softly.my hubby is an "as*" guy so when I lay down I just lay on my right side and back my as* to him purposely so he gets the hint lol good luck mamas
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