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Jan of 2015 I was in the ER for abdominal/ovary pain. I was on my period and bleeding very very heavy with clotting. They did an untrasound but saw nothing did a pregnancy test and saw that I had hcg level that said pregnant but was falling.
They checked for ectopic pregnancy amount other things. I was on yaz birth control when this happened. I was also passed my period by two months. They couldn't really tell what happened. But they said that I either had an endometriosis episode, or a miscarriage. Fast forward to today I'm 21 as Is my fiance. (We were only dating when I was in the er. It was a month into our relationship) now we are engaged to be married next oct 2017. I told him the other day that I wanted to try to have a baby. He is not fond of the idea whatsoever. Any time I bring up that night in the er he changes the subject. He says he doesn't want to try right now because of our money situation and that our wedding is next year. But for the last month all I can think about it having a baby. I've even been having dreams. I don't know what it means. I think he doesn't want to try because he's scared I'm going to miscarry again. I don't know what I should do or say to him. I just have this overwhelming feeling that a baby is in our near future.
They checked for ectopic pregnancy amount other things. I was on yaz birth control when this happened. I was also passed my period by two months. They couldn't really tell what happened. But they said that I either had an endometriosis episode, or a miscarriage. Fast forward to today I'm 21 as Is my fiance. (We were only dating when I was in the er. It was a month into our relationship) now we are engaged to be married next oct 2017. I told him the other day that I wanted to try to have a baby. He is not fond of the idea whatsoever. Any time I bring up that night in the er he changes the subject. He says he doesn't want to try right now because of our money situation and that our wedding is next year. But for the last month all I can think about it having a baby. I've even been having dreams. I don't know what it means. I think he doesn't want to try because he's scared I'm going to miscarry again. I don't know what I should do or say to him. I just have this overwhelming feeling that a baby is in our near future.
Wouldn't you rather be married first before having a baby? I think your future child would be proud that his/her parents waited until they were married before it was born. I agree with your boyfriend. I think it's better to wait. You have a wedding to plan and if you get pregnant now those plans might get pushed aside. Have fun and enjoy planning your wedding. Once you get married your fiance will most likely change his mind.
I think you're having these feeling because there was a possible loss. Hopefully you weren't pregnant. I had endometreosis myself and always had very heavy bleeding and ended up in the hospital once because of it.
The pill can mess with your periods so maybe that's why you missed two of them.
You have plenty of time to get pregnant after you get married. Enjoy your free time with your fiance and enjoy your wedding planning.
I think you're having these feeling because there was a possible loss. Hopefully you weren't pregnant. I had endometreosis myself and always had very heavy bleeding and ended up in the hospital once because of it.
The pill can mess with your periods so maybe that's why you missed two of them.
You have plenty of time to get pregnant after you get married. Enjoy your free time with your fiance and enjoy your wedding planning.
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