Dont do this to yourself when u feel ur baby move smile because once there born u will wish u had all this time to think look if hes not there and not helping oh well ur not going to die its okay ur not the forst or the last remember that i noe we all picture mom dad baby but sometimes things dont happen that wau and u have to be strong. Keep ur head up momma !its ok
That's currently what I'm doing. I'll tell him when the appointments are and if he decides to come then hey but if not oh well his lost. As long as the baby is ok I'm satisfied with life. Don't let that bring you down.