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We just gave birth to a beautiful baby boy May 12th!!!! It has not even been 2 weeks and my husband to be is already planning on having a second child he is so excited and thrilled with our first boy he now wants to try for a little sister for our boy... not sure how to feel about this any thoughts on this??
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My son will be 1 year this week and I'm 32 weeks pregnant with a baby girl,  we didn't plan it but after she's here, then we'll take a break or no more kids,  we'll see. I've been getting judged a lot but also that they'll grow together. Is really up to you
So I got pregnant when he was 4 months
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My BF knows how I feel about the subject: I want Smalls to be the baby for a while, and then maybe after two and a half, maybe three years then we'll start for Baby #2. That, and I need time to make myself forget how miserable this pregnancy was before I'd be eager for the experience a second time, haha
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I have a 4 year old almost 5 n I'm fixing to have my son in a couple of weeks. I want one more child but not till about 5 years from now. I wanted to get to spend time with just them when they are babies. They all need there on time I feel like.
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Next thing would not be another baby right away, it would be to get married.  
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I would be like, heck no! Lol I personally think it's best to wait until the baby is older. My kids are 12 and 8. I just think that every kid should have time to be the baby. It gets hard when you have kids back to back..
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We plan on trying to space our kids about 2 years apart. I've told my hubby I want at least a year to get my body back into shape, and I want our kids to be close in age, but I don't want to have to take care of 2 infants at a time.
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I say wait about 6 month's just for your body to heal but I think having children close in age is a really good thing someone for them to go to school with and play with and understand better with if I knew what I knew I would've had my children closer in age than 7 1/2 years apart
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