how to keep the baby daddy from ever seening the baby

[suggsbaby]

dose any of you ladies know and good way to keep the dad of the baby out of the pictuer for good.

[AnnieBrooke]

Listen to jessicups, if this guy is a good father you should want him in your child's life.  Kids need their parents, even if the parents are not together.

[jessicups]

He has rights to the baby just as you do, if it went to court the judge would definitely take into account how he treated you while pregnant though. Try to keep records if he is verbally abusive or of altercations proving he mistreated you. That being said, just because you guys arnt getting along doesn't mean he should see his kid, or that this baby doesnt,have a right to their father. It's not his responsibility to house you, I don't know what happened between you guys, but it's not up to you to decide if his child should have a relationship with him. You guys are 50/50, a bad partner can still be a great dad and doing something out of spite can,bite you in the *** later. You can get in trouble from the judge if he takes you to court and proves you've kept his baby from him knowing very well it was his kid.

[suggsbaby]

ok

[mommyof2nowtp]

I guess shut wait and see girly right now focus on you and baby and take one day at time try to let go what happened and if you need help pray

[suggsbaby]

idk if he would or not

[mommyof2nowtp]

If he is going to go thru at that trouble then maybe he will be a good dad. Do you think?

[qbkc]

Simplyyme is wrong even if you don't put him on he can get a blood test & prove it's his and get rights.

[suggsbaby]

until he wants dna testing n then when it comes back postive hell want to go to court for full parent rights

[simplyymee]

Don't put his name on the birth certificate and he won't have any rights

[mommyof2nowtp]

I'm so sorry that you are going thru this. I feel like I don't know the whole story and the reasonings and that behind things but I think it personally feel that you should be the bigger better person in the situation and forgive him not for him but for you and it feels you can forgive him I think you will see that he deserves a chance to be in baby's life. :/ again I'm so sorry your going thru this but as long as he's not hurting or putting baby in danger i think you should give him a chance chance to be involved. But stay strong and prepare yourself for the worst in case it don't work out :/

[suggsbaby]

even if he kicked me out knowing im carring his child

[GeekMom1213]

Legally he has rights just like you do - biologically you are each parents to the child, 50/50.
To change the legal status of things, you will have to go to court.

[RockRose]

Well, it sounds like since he kicked you out with no place whatsoever to go,  it's possible he's not interested in being in the picture at all anyway?

[qbkc]

Unless you can prove he's unfit you can't if he wants he can take you to court his baby he has rights . Hopefully you have a good reason to keep a father away from his child other then him not giving you your way. Good luck