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Who the my baby father , help

Hi everyone, maybe someone could help me? I'm 17 week pg and I don't know who my baby father . On dec 8 I started my period my period normally last 3 day then on dec 11  I did the stupid mistake to have intercourse  with a man who not my boyfriend, on dec 13 I left to atl Georgia to visit my boyfriend who I been with for 3 yrs we had intercourse from the 15 to the22 Now my doc said I consive the baby on the 20 of dec so my little girl is due sep 12 . I'm very stress I really hope my boyfriend is my baby father I don't know what to do Both men know I'm pg but they don't know about eachother I want to be honest and let them know but I don't know how. Please help thank you
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1188979 tn?1311264889
i really think your boyfriend is the father.
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Hi tahnks you so much for youre respinse to my question yesterday.i see you have said amniocentesis yiu can do the test what does that mean,can i get it preformed while pregnant?
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202436 tn?1326474333
Like Waitn said, the dates arent' always accurate.  It takes the fertilized egg a few days to travel down the tube and implant...becuase the dates you had intercourse with the 2 men are so close there really is no way to know for certain without a DNA test. If you have an amniocentesis you can use that to do a DNA test, otherwise you will have to wait untilt he baby is born to have one done and know for sure.  

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Thank you , yes that's what I'm going to end up doing the DNA , thaxs again for your help
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317019 tn?1532965586
it is good that both men know about the preg...honestly because the dates are so close it is possible for either to be the father...the only true answer is a DNA test once the baby is born

i am currently 15 weeks and my baby was conceived on 1/6 according to my doc, however i know that my fiance and i only bd's 1/1 and 1/4 and then not again until 1/8 (after I ovulated)...so those dates arent always for sure and sperm can live for i think up to 5-7 days waiting for the egg

my suggestion would be to get a DNA test to get to the truth...at least get one of them to take a DNA test because then you will know for sure
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