by u/s reading u can know gender of baby....single line means boy...three lines or if pvt part looks like hotdog (burger)....means girl.... heard whn u having girl she start moving very early and mostly on right side...become more beautful...all this happen with me and having a girl....gl
Why won't your midwife tell you the gender? That must be terrible. I am sorry to say that there is no other way to know with certainty what the sex is. The only was to know for sure is to have genetic testing (like an amnio) and the next best is during the anatomy ultrasound scan. There are a ton of "old wives tales" about how you carry the baby, what foods you crave, how fast the baby's heart rate is, etc ... but these have no science behind them and are just as likely to be wrong.
How far along are you? It is possible that is too early for the midwife to tell.
There is no way to accurately determine the sex of your baby without the results of the ultrasound. Even ultrasounds can be wrong. The only fool proof way to determine the sex is to wait until the baby is born.