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Overdue and frustrated

My due date has come and gone and now I'm just getting frustrated with everything. Everyone's constantly asking if I'm alright, I know they're only concerned but it's just annoying now, if there were something wrong they would know.  Our house was supposed to be finished mid sept, it's not. And now I'm wondering if it'll even be done by Halloween, I don't want to live anywhere else for any amount of time.  I'm stressed,  I'm in constant pain, my back is absolutely killing me, and my body is all fluid and swollen. My doctor is useless, he rushes to get me out of the office so he can go home.. The last two appointments my blood pressure was up a lot compared to what it normally is and still he just sent me on my way. No talk of being induced or how my baby is doing . I ask but it's like he doesn't even listen he just pushes me out of the office. I just wish Jaylon would hurry up and get here so I can hold him, being able to get comfortable again and not be in constant pain would be nice too!!  I've been trying to kick start labor, but I think he's just too comfy and doesn't want to come out.  Sorry, this isn't a question. I just needed to vent.
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In was due 26/9 they won't even think about inducing until 10/10 it's so annoying good lucky girlies X
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Due 9/26 but gettjng induced tomorrow 10/1 finally
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I still haven't had any real signs of the baby even coming, I'm being induced Friday morning . But I really hope he comes before then.   It seems everyone thinks I'm fragile and can't do anything , no one ever lets me do anything. That on top of all the questions or comments like "looks like you're soon gonna burst" is getting old and annoying now.. Just a few more days, I'm already dilated 3cm. Thank god .
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Omg i know right. I try not to get annoyed wgen people ask me anything yet? Yup i had the baby and just didnt tell anyone haha
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I'm right there with you ladies, only I was due on the 21st... I just ended up being rude about all the asking "baby yet?" "Any signs" and the ever popular "are you ever gonna have that baby" questions.
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So frustrated too. Was due 22nd and still nothing. Feel bad saying it but it's so annoying with everyone keep asking and sending messages. I honestly don't want to sound ungrateful and of course it's lovely people care but bloody hell I just wish they would leave me alone. It makes you feel worse in yourself. Beginning to doubt myself now and body being capable of delivery I just can't help but wonder if I will manage or if my body is lacking somehow. Feeling very teary! And as much as I can't wait to meet baby I really don't want to be induced!! The thought of inducing makes me feel very anxious!! Come on babies and all the best to everyone!
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Hang in there. My baby was due the 21 and I was induced. I ended up having an emergency c-section. Now I wish I would have waited.
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I know how you feel my due date was on the 25th of September but here I am still nothing and I feel frustrated and trapped. I'm scared of going anywhere bc I feel I might get labour pains while on the road.  It isn't helping that people are constantly asking if baby is here and also I don't have any support from my baby's father.
I'm just tired!
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I hope you have your baby soon.  I was pretty fed up. Just had my baby at 39 weeks and 5 days.
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