Baby daddy

[heatherashleyy]

My childs father and I are not together. And I really just need his support. I'm so depressed during this pregnancy and I need someone. Does anyone have any advice to get through to him. He tells me "I made my bed so I have to lay in it" or "you knew what you were getting into" what should I say to him to make him feel like ****. He seems to have lost his heart. I have his child inside me, I'm not asking for much, just some support

[aprilk94]

I know it's hard im having a hard time too but we cant change a person. I just remind myself that the only thing that matters is my little angel inside me.

[aprilk94]

Hey hun im on ghe exact same boat as you right now. I am 10 weeks and my baby's father has said the same thing. I have tried to be civilized. called him evry name in the book to make him feel like **** and its gotten nowhere. If he's not going to support you talk to a friend or family member for support. Us single mommies are here to for any advice. Be strong for yourself and your baby always have faith. Better things will come in due time.

[Unique]

I'm 19weeks... before I got married.. I have three children.. & my oldest son is 20... my other son is 13 & my daughter is 11& their dad wasn't in their lives & still not... I had learned the "Hard" way !!!
But realize... The husband I have... came along & help me... with my young ones... Now... I'm happy... & don't worry anymore & all you have to do is Believe... & it will happen to you... (a "husband" who will help you with your baby.. because it happen to "me")

[Jonesy2015]

I'm also doing this alone. When I was 8 weeks pregnant I was told I could kill it or get out of his house. I chose my child. Instead of trying to make it work with him like I did for weeks I started leaning on my mom and church family. My church has been amazing!!! Instead of outcasting me like some would they gave me my own class, pray for me and the baby, and show so much love. I go to a church whose motto is everyone is a sinner. M y pastor is actually an ex alcoholic so he knows forgiveness. Find you a good support system and you will be fine.

[QueenNLilP]

That was to you heatherashleyy.....

[QueenNLilP]

Giirrrrlll I went through the same thing. Mine told me to get an abortion. He has a gf that I didn't know about. We was never together, just friends with benefits. And when I got pregnant everything went left!. But now I'm 6 1/2 months pregnant, I've met someone who calls my baby his step daughter. Not perfect in looks but he's the perfect guy though. He's very sweet. God knows what he's doing. He makes no mistakes. When you stop talking to him (yo baby daddy) that's when he'll try to act right TRUST ME I KNOW. but that's when I cut his azz off! He'll find out on fb when I have her. I have support  from this new man who would love to raise her like she should be raised and love me too. Oh well everything happens for a reason. LEARN FROM IT.

[MommahhTipsyy]

Dont stress about it at the end of the day hes the only one thats missing out on this amazing journey just stay positive and think that you have your little one growing inside of you and believe me you dont need him around just enjoy your pregnancy as long as you have your babys love it makes up for everything else