DNA test

[zazd]

The father of my child wants to do a DNA test even tho I know I only been with him for months! I'm almost 16 weeks and he wants to start going to appointments and be there for the birth but I see no point in him being there right now if he doesn't even think he is. Why would I waste my time with him when I could have people with me that support in trust me?!? What would you guys do?????

[Lilbittybaby]

If he really is the father and it was me. I would let him be apart of the babies life and come to appointments if i felt comfortable with him there. But as for the relationship part i wouldn't be with him because of the reasons you mentioned. But the baby will want there daddy in there life if you can make it work on a strictly your only seeing me because of the baby basis.

[martysquirrel27]

I wouldn't take it as an insult. Imagine if you were a guy. Even if he knows you didn't cheat there are too  many women that screw men over and lie about the babies.  It sounds like he wants to be sure.  And if he wants to be there for baby that's great.  He just wants to be sure it's his. =)  I do understand  your anger but think about what's best for the baby.  Take the test. Prove to him it's his  and that means he has to take responsibility.