Does this mean that the father of our unborn baby doesnt want use here?

[Kyle_2015]

The father of my child doesn't want to help me get our room together for the baby. Does this mean that he doesn't want us here?

[Kyle_2015]

Thank you so much for the advice.

[QueenB_82]

As upsetting as it is sometimes its just how some men are. My partner hasnt done a thing to help me but he is excited for this baby.
Sometimes our hormones get the better of is during pregnancy and we find we think to much into things.
Maybe get a friend around to help you finish off the room.
You also have to remember that your partner to may be scared or worried he wont do something right and doesnt want to upset you.
My partner told me he would rather me do things myself cause then he cant get in trouble for doing it wrong. I dont mean to be nasty or get moody when he has tried its just these silly emotions.
Im sure once your baby is here your partner will change.
Dont spend your last few weeks stressed, enjoy the process of getting things ready because he could be here anytime :)

[Kyle_2015]

Tried to text it to him but he turned his phone off.I really believe that he's just a lazy a** Man. And I can't blame anyone but myself for having to go through this. But hopefully my little Man will be here soon:)

[TinaDuran]

Have you told him that you don't feel loved and alone?

[babyElijah15]

@soccermom okay you win!

[SoccerMom2009]

@elijah: Ditto!

[babyElijah15]

@soccermom What's with the rudeness?? I'm sensitive and hormonal at times too. I didn't mean it to be offensive. Who isn't sensitive and hormonal while pregnant? And how dare you Wish negativity onto me. Get off your high horse.

[SoccerMom2009]

Personally,  I think it's very sad that the father of your baby does not want to help you. If he's not gonna help you than who is? You can't do everything. Especially set up the furniture.  

And @ BabyElijah: wow! are u serious? I hope your baby daddy doesn't help you in any way and see if your "sensitive and hormonal?" Smdh!

[Kyle_2015]

Lol yea I think so I just want to set up the room before baby gets here I have less then 3 weeks to do so. It just feel like I don't have any help.

[babyElijah15]

Sounds like your very sensitive and hormonal.

[Kyle_2015]

I did but he just gets mad and say "If I want you to leave I would have told you." But I don't feel loved I think he's just letting me stay with him because I'm pregnant.

[traciv]

What do you think? We don't know him like you do.
My husband doesn't get involved with things like buying clothes or putting the room together. It's just not who he is. Does it bother me? No. He will however build the furniture for me because if he left it up to me everything would fall apart.

[ashley3232]

Ask him!