):FEELING LONELY!!

[WLeilua]

My partner left me the day before i was meant to meet his parents (after 2 and a half years being in a long distance relationship), due to the fact he that "HE CANT HANDLE THIS ANYMORE and WE ARGUE TO MUCH"
Hes been in the army for a year now and ever since, he has changed big time! His head has blown up and all he cares about is himself. This is the reason why we would argue.
ALSO his father is a minister so we were expected to get married before baby gets here and im due december 31st (BABY no.1) but because we are no longer together hes not aloud to have anything to do with me and baby (church rules).  He reckons he will be there for baby but ever since hes known about my pregnancy all hes done is drink, ignore me and push me away.
I dont want to bring my baby up alone so im very confused and emotional as to what i need to do now. I know hes stressed with 1st becoming a new dad, 2nd being in the army 3rd His parents. but i just dont know what to do anymore :(

[WLeilua]

Thank use all for everything!
We are no longer talking anymore, i got the 'f.off'. im over his dramatic moods! And all he thinks and cares about is himself. But im also still wanting my little family :( my head is all over the place and im over that too! Im trying to get thru everyday that goes by but finding it really hard. Having no physical mental support isnt any help either. Just feeling really lost!

[kdavis9]

Honestly... His parents are no good for even believing it's okay for him to leave you all al

[yely14]

I'm glad i could help love;)
Just remember that your baby needs you no matter how old he is

[mommylady1]

I will give u advice on personal experience. Leave him alone because if u push yield on him u will only push him away. So give him space. Second it will make u feel better give it about a month . .. trust me I just tried this. I don't know what kind of church he goes to but I think that is a bunch of bull.  And to help with his parents. Take care of your child your not the only one going the this b strong enough to take care of yourself for your child..

[MiguelAndres]

Sorry to hear about it...I've had this app for awhile and never seen that you can chat w/someone...as of today I've been crying so much b/c the father of my baby kicked us out of our home...i haven't packed or anything b/c I'm just waiting for him to come home to see if I can SAVE OUR FAMILY...but who knows...it's true this will be hard...I've been thru this before and u do become stronger but then again even the strong ones fall...it's their choice if they want to come back up...but right now I'm just in denial and I don't want to leave...confused also cause I know what to do but of course my heart says another thing...I've always wanted a complete family b/c that's something I never had but it's hard

[WLeilua]

Thaaaank you. I will try, its just so hard to focus on baby stuff cause we had made plans for baby, but now? Im really confused.  When i first found out im pregnant i was scared and he made things more positive and easy, now im just totally fully confused!

[Rickarby]

Try not think about it to much concentrate on baby I'm same my boyfriend left me I'm 20 weeks pregnant way I look at it is he's going miss out on most beautiful thing in world his loss  I have no contact with him he's cut me off totally but just got keep strong keep self busy with baby stuff :)

[WLeilua]

THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR EVERYTHING!!
Im done crying now time for me to start living for once.
My baby is number one priority and will always be! Abortion is something i could never do, i praise every women who have babies. Just dealing with him on my own is what im going to find hard, but you have opened my eyes up and made me realise that me and baby are going to be algood. Thank you thank you thank you for all your help. You really have helped me!

[yely14]

You'll have to be both dad and mom for your baby and yes it won't be easy but in a future all your baby will care is how much you've done to give him a life and how hard it was for you to be both father and mother at the end of tbe story no man is worth your tears and just because you guys aren't together it means your baby has to pay for his decisions...after all is only ur choice to make but really think about what u do next if u're completely  sure u can't take care of ur baby then think about what's best for him but not for u cause when u decided to have sex u also decided that u were mattire enough to accept the consecuences and we all now what can happen after unprotected sex a baby is always a gift but is better to give him/her on adoption if u think u won't be as a good mom as u wish cause every little angel deserves a family father's are important but the one person that will always be with the baby is the mother no matter she's #1 priority for the baby's life

[WLeilua]

Im not really an emotional person but being pregnant you cant really stop it. Being the first pregnancy in my household is even more stressful. (Living with twin brother and Mum. She couldn't have her own babies which is why her and dad adopted us. Dad died when i was little)
Now that my partner has left me (a month ago) i feel as if i have no support and that me and baby are on our own. I love my baby so muuuuuuuuch i just wish his daddy did to.

[WLeilua]

Im not really an emoti

[WLeilua]

Ever since its happened all i do is stress out and cry everyday! All i want is to have my family, i know what its like with out a father and i never want my baby to experience it. The part that hurts the most is that he left me over the phone and wont even try for baby's sake :(

[yely14]

You don't need no man to have your baby nope it won't be easy but a son/daughter is the biggest blessing and not even for a second you should feel confused about your priorities which is and will always be being the best mom as possible, that little angel deserves to have a family and if his dad is dumb enough to have doubt you should't feel the same way if you really want your baby there's always a way