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Grandma problems

Ok so I recently moved out of my moms place into my bf moms place we don't stay together there thou and I have recently had a baby from him. Ever since I moved in all they say is how the baby looks like him. I think it's disrespectful to constantly say that knowing I'm the mother. The baby has a few features that look like the dad and a few of mine. They try to make every feature look like him by bringing up there grandma etc. when I have it. Instead of saying I have it which I do. It's like they can't say that feature looks like mine i don't need their say because I see how the baby looks myself. It just bugs and I don't know how to tell them since I'm the one who moved in their place. So any ideas??
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Also, she will always be biased because it is her son's child...
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I say just brush it off... my grandma always tells me my daughter looks like my mother in law.. I don't get it, people see what they want top see, it really means nothing at all. Babies change so much over time, and when they are teens you will know who they look like. It is what it is :-) good luck
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