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[Zeezo87]

I'm 18yrs old I live with my parents and my bf is 20 who lives with his grandmother at this moment I have no job and he's job isn't the best I just found out I was 4weeks pregnant and didn't tell my family yet . I'm wondering should I move out of New York  since it's so expensive and start somewhere fresh and cheaper like p.a ? I need advice

[Sexci_Black11]

GURL ALL I CAN SAY IS DO WHATS BEST FOR U. ! BUT TO BE HONEST WHEN U HAVE FAMILY WHO SUPPORTS U WHEN U ARE BRINGING A LIL PERSON INTO THE WORLD ITS THE BEST THING U CAN ASK FOR !!!!  TELL YOUR FAMILY FIRST AND SEE HOW THEY CAN SUPPORT U IF THE WAY THEY WANNA SUPPORT U YOU DONT LIKE OR THINK U CAN DO MUCH BETTER MOVING AND ON YOUR OWN THEN GO AHEAD BUT ONLY U CAN MAKE THAT DECISION....WELL GOOD LUCK !!!!!

[Zeezo87]

My bf grandmother knows and my bf is 100% supportive. I think my family will be mad at first but still
Support me but at the same time it's going to be hard living in ny even with the support

[Shuny_]

I know you're scared but don't leave ppl who love you. Because they may very well support you & the situation may turn out to be better than you think. So just wait it out for now.

[babyberry000]

I would wait to find out if your family and boyfriend are going to help you, being away from family while pregnant is a hard thing to do and not having a job is even harder, if you're planning on working during you're pregnancy i would i apply for jobs in the area you want to move first, then check if your boyfriends job transfers to where you are going.
But yes i would try to move if you don't have the money to raise a baby where you are, you have to look down the long road and do what's going to be me beneficial.
I moved from Texas to northern idaho At 20 weeks of pregnancy, best decision i ever made. My husband got a job here, and the standard of living is so much better. I bought baby clothes at a yard sale for sizes newborn to 24 months for only 25$!!  I won't have to shop for clothes for my LO till he is 2 years old!! It's all about what you can afford, and what is the best in the long run.

[babyberry000]

I would wait to find out if your family and boyfriend are going to help you, being away from family while pregnant is a hard thing to do and not having a job is even harder, if you're planning on working during you're pregnancy i would i apply for jobs in the area you want to move first, then check if your boyfriends job transfers to where you are going.
But yes i would try to move if you don't have the money to raise a baby where you are, you have to look down the long road and do what's going to be me beneficial.
I moved from Texas to northern idaho At 20 weeks of pregnancy, best decision i ever made. My husband got a job here, and the standard of living is so much better. I bought baby clothes at a yard sale for sizes newborn to 24 months for only 25$!!  I won't have to shop for clothes for my LO till he is 2 years old!! It's all about what you can afford, and what is the best in the long run.

[AdventureTime92]

Will you not have your parents support? If you move, how are you going to do that? What about your bf's grandmother, does she know?