How To Deal?

[Jrenee155]

I just found out my sister is indeed pregnant again with baby #2. My niece is only 10 months and the father she ****** towards my sister. Then I also find out that she getting a abortion.  My sister is as strong welled as I am and I know this will break her. And to top it off I'm 23 weeks pregnant with my first and I don't want her to push me away because I'm pregnant. Is there anyway I can help comfort her? I tried to talk to her yesterday and immediately she got a attitude.

[Jrenee155]

She seem to be okay with her decision. I gave her a huge hug yesterday and I think it made her feel a lot better to know I was there for her

[tishaxx]

How is your sister jrenee155

[Jrenee155]

I just have to give her time, I'm sure she will talk to me eventually

[tishaxx]

I'm 15weeks on my birthday :-) tomorrow

[tishaxx]

She's gonna regret it my sister got rid of her baby and I'm now pregnant  I found out I'm pregnant then after she found out she was pregnant  I would support her but if I were you I would say if your gonnango threw with it I'm just gonna let you know you will regret it I would be there for you if you keep the baby and same if you font but I don't want you to push me away just because I'm pregnantni don't want you to feel like you have to and ask her why do you want to abort your baby? Ask her that and see what she says I don't agree with that but I'm not gonna judge If I was pregnant with a 2nd baby knowing its gonna be hard with 2 I will still keep my baby no matter what but its totally up to your big sister what she want to do good luck

[Jrenee155]

I'm going do my best to help and we live in the same house. I'm also the baby sister for my niece and she with me now. But I hope the joy from this little one continues to make her feel that she has someone looking up to her daily

[Jules_mommy]

With love and support she'll get through it. Maybe you could get her a journal? Sometimes it's easier to write down feelings than say them. Maybe even look into groups or things she could join for support if she does begin to feel regret. Keep a look out for her daughter and offer to help watch her so she can get a break for a bit.

[Jrenee155]

She my older sister and she's always been quite and doesn't let out he emotions or feelings well. I'm just praying that she can get through this. My niece needs her the most.

[Jules_mommy]

That's a really hard decision to make and unfortunately something she'll probably regret someday :/ she probably won't want to talk about it for a while but make sure she knows that you support her and you're there for her. She's probably feeling alone right now with all of those issues going on. She's lucky to have a caring sister like you :)

[Jrenee155]

Yeah your right and she just left with my mom to do it. And I feel sad and worried about her

[Jules_mommy]

If I was you I would just let her know that you're there for her if she ever needs to talk and that you'll be supportive of whatever decisions she makes. Sometimes all you can really do for someone is letting them know that they aren't alone. She's probably just extremely stressed out about the situation and right now just wants time to herself. Don't take it as her pushing you away, view it as her needing time to figure out what she really wants. When she's ready she'll let you in.