I dont want sex >:(

[octomom23]

But thats all my boyfriend cares about.. I dont want to think about it or feel it or do it.. I just dont want sex.. before he said oh I understand but now he gets mad every time I say no I dont wanna do it.. thats all we use to do before I got pregnant like probably more than others.. I just want these few months where we just connect emotionally not sexually and hes not getting that.. im getting so annoyed to the point I dont even want him around me .. anybody else going through this or has been through it. I need advice please

[shannon2810]

I'm sorry but regardless of how much he wants me.. if I'm gonna hurl from even the slightest amount of moving around or anything.. he's gonna have to suck it up lol :P depends on the situation I think.

[niolaisthebest]

My bd gets mad and we argue then i just do it because hes annoying .and im only 20 weeks

[Emmyou]

When my dh wants it I give it to him if I feel like it or not. It's not fair to him bc I won't give him a ** that's gross to me. If i really don't feel like it I give him a hand job and he's cool with that.

[Palomaa95]

Ugh I'm going thru the same crap right now and when I say no he gets all mad saying I have someone else and this and that he pisses me off

[betty88jean]

Just give it to him ?!
Sorry to sound so blunt about the whole thing.. But common ladies, if your man wants you, let him have you, do some fooling around until you do want him, use lube.?? I don't want sex all the time either, but if my man wants me.. I'm gonna give it to him.. Give the poor guy 10 mins of your time.

[AustinBlake]

Im almost 32 weeks and me and my SO have only had sex 3 times since finding out about our pregnancy at 3 weeks. I just dont feel like it. Im nauseous,  tired, big. My SO is dissapointed but he's understanding.  

[octomom23]

Thank You ladies :)

[shannon2810]

Meh. I think the boys need to understand what we are going through. My fiancee likes to be quite sexually active and asks all the time and I'm too tired, or nauseous, or just plain 'ol not in the mood. Hormones come into play for lack of libido and that's just the way things go. I agree tho I feel a little selfish at times but this is my well being, I'm focused on growing a child my energy is used up long before night time haha. A truly caring partner should understand.. at times he doesn't but for the most part he lets it go. It's been a couple weeks at least since we had sex. I'm hoping later in the 2nd trimester I'll get my second wind and can give him what he wants but for now... My body, mind and emotions are adjusting.. he should too. Don't feel too guilty. If he's that desperate he can self pleasure lol you shouldn't have to feel like you're causing him to possibly search elsewhere for sex.. that would speak a lot about his overall character. Anyway girly.. keep your chin up. It could pass. Just take care of yourself first you're the pregnant one@

[yesenia5]

Just argued bout it usually I'm ok for other stuff cuz I do feel selfish sometimes but Hey I think I'm sacrificing alot too I think sex for a while isn't the worst ImNOt In The Mood! sorry just needed to vent just makes me mad how I get no understanding from him at all!

[newmommy819214]

I'm totally the other way around my bd pissed me off not wanting to give me any saying that's what its all about.....no its not all about it but I mean we only have 3 days out of the week to do it when he doesn't have his daughter ans be lucky if her momma picks  her up half the time....but sorry ur going through that. but yeah u should just talk to him not sex but there's other ways....

[hollinsnia]

I'm currently 31 weeks pregnant & I went tru the same thing , my sex drive just wasn't their at ALL . & at first me & my BD would argueabout it  , but then I thought okay  can't be completely selfish ya know ? I can't just not give him anything  at all . I don't wabt HIM to have to go out & get it else where.  So I just found different ways TO give him his pleasure.  Talk to him about substituting . Like insted of sex , you just help him jacc off or something .

[octomom23]

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