I know this is a tough question, but anyone here pregnant after being raped ?

[proudmommytobe15]

I'm young and I'm always having nurses be so rude to me about my pregnancy. I don't get as informed and taken care of as the older women. It's not my fault that I'm pregnant, but I'm keeping my baby girl. I love her. I wish doctors would realize not every teenager that gets pregnant wasn't just having careless sex

[cupcakelovinmommy]

Im sorry to hear that happened to you. I smiled when I read the part of you keeping your baby. Alot of girls I know wouldn't have done that. Your very and strong for it. I hope your daughter knows when shes old enough what you did by not giving up and taking what some would say is the "easy way out". Best of luck to you!

[candymae82]

That's horrible. If I were you be honest with what happened and how it has effected you and tell them that there attitude is not making the process any easier. Take care and speak up.  

[wayfunmommy]

I'm so sorry, sweet heart. Talk to your doctor or the office manager about the rude comments. That's unacceptable.

[babycribbs15]

I'm soooooo sorry that yu had to go thru that & are goin thru it but yu doing the right thing yur babygirl didn't ask to be here but just because yu aint ask for it don't mean get rid of her either. Your blessings is goin to come rather yu know it or not hun. Just keep your head up high its all bout yur daughter now.

[etismyhero]

As a nurse, I am very disappointed that the nurse would treat you any different because you are young. Nurses are supposed to be nonjudgmental. I'm sorry for what happened and tell those nurses to their face that you shouldn't be treated differently.. they might change their attitude.

[lbbb3]

It's very sad you and countless other young moms are being treated that way by people who are meant to be there and help you. You're definitely strong and willing, that's all that matters. Their opinion is only needed when it comes to the health of your baby girl, if not.. just find a new doctor. :) good luck!

[proudmommytobe15]

I appreciate all the kind words , and personally I love my doctor. The nurses usually just have attitudes or don't try to tell me things like they would  the older women. I may be 15 but I'm doing very well in my home school program and I'm mm doing everything I possibly can. I just hate the fact that I feel like it's a Hassel for them to tell me things. I hate it how if I even ask how much her heart beat was I get this rude sigh then answer.

[NativeMomma218]

Find a new doctor. People deserve to be treated with respect no matter what the age or circumstance. Stay strong and don't let any of the heartless people of this world bring u down.

[edithnb]

I've never imagine that happening.Im really sorry for what happened.  Im soo glad and proud that you kept you baby. God bless you! Keep strong and you head up, only you know your story so no one gets to judge you.

[MiracleBaby122014]

Hey honey no I haven't personally but I've  been raped before and sweet you are very brave and strong to keep the baby. Don't let them take away your joy and make a complaint  about their treatment.  That's not nice nor fair . God bless u baby girl .

[wookiemom]

If you're doctor and his office staff disrespect you, find a different doctor.  If it's just the staff and not the doctor, talk to the office manager.  No matter what your age or circumstances you deserve to be respected.

[Tavi12]

I'm sorry you are having to deal with that but you are such a brave strong lady to be keeping the baby