I'm highly stressed

[stheza]

Hy guys Im 26 weeks nd my father does know that I'm pregnant nd this is my second child I'm jst scared to tel him. Nd currently he doesn't stay with us he jst came to check us bt always wen he cums I'm have to breath in to hide the pregnancy... my partner is there for me nd promised to pay the damages before my father finds out bt I'm frustrated coz my partner always say he wil bring his ppl bt he hvnt nd my Tummy is growing everyday now it's hard for me to breath in wen my father is around. Any help nd suggestions plz

[sweetbee3]

& another thing... does he text? It can be hard in some situations to say things face to face, even through I did. Send him a texT to tell him the news. That way you can avoid the eye to eye contact.  Then by the time he comes around again, he will already have had time to think about the situation,  instead of face to face where he may react right away and say something he doesn't mean.

[sweetbee3]

Not sure if your underage?  But I got pregnant with my first when I was 18, I was already out of the house. I have a big Italian family,  so my father found out I was pregnant with a Africa American man, now my husband...  he told me to get a abortion.  Talking about hurt!! We didn't speak for a few years!! But all in all it will help to just get it off your chest. Just tell him I mean he's going to find out eventually.  Pretty soon your not going to be able to hide it. I'm on baby # 3 now, of course all with my husband and my father loves his grand babies.  Always wanting pictures and sending gifts via mail on Christmas,  and birthdayS.

[weldermom]

Loose shirts if it's a must I'd just tell him though he will get over it unless you are financially depending on him they yeah be cautious but he will get over it

[lucie27]

I thought my dad would be super pissed but he ws surprisingly excited I was 19 when I had my first and will be 22 when I have my second. I thought he would be a little less than pleased this time around but he was still excited. I'm sure your dad will be fine but you should tell him sooner rather than later.