Above talking about what is best for the kids is just right. It's really hard when mom and dad don't get along but it definitely happens. I'm sorry this is your situation now. I think what you really have to do is make sure you promote opportunities for him to bond with baby and be a dad. Even if you feel you shouldn't have to . . . your child will want this. Your child will want to look back at pictures and see that Dad cared enough to be there when they were born. It will be meaningful when dad says to baby, I was there when you were born! It's all about your child and promoting this relationship between baby and dad, it's so very important. Good luck hon
You can choose who can or can't be in the delivery room. If you are unsure of the future do whats best for you and the kids. He doesn't have to be in your pictures ♡ i hope u had/have a great l&d