Please dont judge i need some advise.

[Rayniece]

Hi ladies ! Im only 17, Im 30 weeks pregnant. I just needed some little guidance on what i should do for my child sake in my situation from a mature mindset. I was being dumb one night & decided to have an baby with my ex boyfriend, earlier during my pregnancy he was very nice & making sure i was alright.Things change when i started asking him for money to help me out for our son, & now he just looks for arguments even tho were even broken up..my mom told me i may have to put him on child support when my son gets here & hes still isnt doing anything to support him. Im not going to lie, im stressing knowing that the guy that i thought loved me would treat me like im nothing. I dont know whats wrong. Im trying to move on but its hard

[PriVale]

Agreed with first post, she couldn't have said it better. How we see our lives and the expectations in it are sometime very far from the reality we end up going through. Every decision has a reaction...or lesson. I wish you the best young lady, be a strong and a loving mother no matter what, our children come first.

[Trisheee94]

yes she said everything right great advice!:)

[hersheyma]

That was some great advice from the previous poster

[Shon10_4]

Loving your son's father isn't wrong,neither is wanting to start a family I'm sure you had your reasons. Harsh reality, guys can change their minds. We can't make them be there for us or their children.we carry the baby and the responsibility sometimes the only way to get them to own their part in laying down and making a child is through the court system. Give it some time if you can handle The baby without his financial assistance do it.give him a chance to come around. It hurts to love someone so much and they let you down so badly..in the end for yourself and your son you'll have to accept whatever happens and be a mother