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Someone help me please!!!(not pregnancy related) but i am a mother
okay i found out my husband of almost 11years has been cheating on me for the past 6 years with different women and its one woman whos he's been dealong with for 6 years and she is now pregnant o found out about jer last year his family had all met her and knew her and also invited her to familuy function and now she is 7months pregnant his own vousin told me that he loves the women very much and theres a string chanve he wont leave her alone yes we been to conseling and havemt been on good terms for a while now what should i do please help......and the woman didnt know he was married but he went out his way to keep her around
Sorry your going thru this. divorce him and make him take care of your girls. I hope the other girl leaves him and he ends up alone. If she has any conscious and is smart she will leave him, because if he did it to you, she could be next. His not worth a tear. Hugs
Get a divorce... I'm sorry.. if she's having a baby they will never leave each other alone so You'll always be getting cheated on and hurt.. good luck
i have no where to go..and his familu are all pastors so this is very backstabning
I was the other woman in a situation like this, he and I had been together for 2 years, we were spending most of our free time together and had one daughter & lost a baby in that time. The day I found out that he was married was the last time I ever spoke to him and 5 years on, my daughter doesn't even know his name. I don't know what happened with his wife but she was 6 months pregnant when I spoke to her, I felt badly for her at the time, we both deserved better. My life is amazing now, happily married, about to have a baby & his daughter had a wonderful dad in my husband. I hope her life is better too. If I were in your situation, I would tell the other woman in a calm and respectful way, if she didn't know about you then she had been cheated too. I wish you all the best.
He's been cheating for half the marriage?! Definitely not salvageable. He's scum now leave him to deal with his girl and baby and you ho out there and have fun!!
11 yrs... Pfftt. U got the rest of ur life! Don't waste ur time on that! Of course anything u do in life is hard but u deserve way better! Leave that pathetic loser and b a great mother to ur daughters. There will b a real man out there that will love u enough to stay faithful to u. Good luck and I hope he gets what he deserves!
Leave him, he bretrayed you so he doesn't deserve another chance. Once a cheat always a cheat, I know it will be hard as 11 years is a long time but you need to get out asap and move on with your life. Good luck
Get a divorce :/ I'm so sorry
Leave him immediately
So sad im so sorry wish im by you give you hug..... but if i can help ill tell you step out of his life let him miss you and your kids... Everynight hes going to bed hes going to think of you and kids first thing... but if you chose to stay he see it normal and by the time get even normal that it was okay he well feel like he didnt do anything wrong ... but it way better for you walk out besides him and his other girl in ur face it will hurt so much to see them every day... u may love him so much and it hard to leave him.. But hes never going learn LEAVE HIM AND GET LAWYER LET HIM WORK HARDER PAY YOU A D GIRLS MONEY ,.. IT WAS HIS choice TO GO CHEAT IT NOT MONTH OR FEW MONTHS IF HE WANT IT TO STOP HE CAN STOP FROM FIRST DAY BUT 6YEARS R LONG SO LONG SO HE WAS HAVING FUN BEHIND YOUR BK FOR YEARS... NOW KRAMA PAY BACK TIME LET HIM FEEL WHAT HE DID WRONG LET HIM PAY YOU GIRLS... NOW U BE FREE GO OUT HAVE FUN HIS TIME END ... HES STUCK WITH GIRL AND HER BABY FOR ALL HIS LIFE NOW... WHILE U BEEN TAKEN CARE GIRLS FOR YEARS HE DIDNT RESPECT WHAT HE HAD TO BAD.., WISH YOU GOOD LUCK HUN AND DO BESTTTT GO OUT HAVE FUNNNN YOUR TURNNN
I'm so sorry your going through this... I would get a lawyer and take him for everything he's worth. Good luck!
It's going to be hard leaving him specially since you are used to him but give it time and it will get better!!:) you will find the right guy one day....some men just don't appreciate what they have when it's in front of them
thanks im so hurt i seen signs when he wouldnt touch me anymore i even had my tubes tied now she os having hid first son...i also have 3 daughters
Wow first off sorry that this happened. My suggestion is for you to get a lawyer and get away. Chances of him changing and being a good guy after all this are slim. He went out of his way to do this for the past several years so that shows his persistence to keep doing it and personally - I don't believe he'll stop or want to give her up. Get away from that situation ASAP and do what you have to. Now it's going to be a difficult choice between doing what is right and what is easy... something he has no idea how to differentiate. I'm a first time father and marriage/pregnancy is not easy. But taking care of the missus and our baby logan is right and I'll stand by her no matter what happens. Again km very sorry this is happening and I wish you all the luck in the world.
Omg that's horrible....dirty *** men..what does he say about it? If he lied for so long I would not stay with him! Screw him and hopefully he learns his lesson...if the girl didn't know he was married she should leave him also cus he also cheated on her.... I'm so sorry this happened to you, just be smart before you make the decision;)
do you guys think he will leave her alone?
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