Why is your bf risking his life, your future together and that of of his unborn child for a friend, doing dangerous stuff. As another posted if he is caught its jailtime. If indeed its for a friend he shd let the friend do the buying and the using and exclude him - unless if he has a personal interest. He needs to come really squeaky clean on this one for all your futures sake.
I would talk to him about how e I putting your future and your child's future at risk. I've been involved in dangerous things before. I stopped when I knew that I had someone else relying on me
Lying is the least of your issues - selling and buying vicodin without a prescription us a SERIOUS crime and if he's caught, automatic prison time.
This seems farfetched anyway, Cassandra.
K girls.. he was buying vicodin for his friend so he says and the girl is apparently an older lady that he works with..wich I did make him show me on fb and shes like 60 so I doubt hes cheating.. Its just the lying thats an issue now
That's a tough one. :/ People say girls don't normally sell weed, so not true. Know many girls that do. Sending smileys doesn't mean he cheating. My fiance and I do the same when talking to people no matter the gender. Now when you say he sent the text about I'll be there soon but its gotta be quick, the girl could've simple wanted to smoke with him and that's why he said its gotta be quick. Your best bet is to just ask him. Sounds to me like he is smoking again. If so, maybe he is scares to tell you, doesn't want to fight or he thinks you'll break up with him. Don't copy and send the msgs. It's just too much. You'll know if he is lying or not.
He's definitely not buying weed from her..... I'm sorry to say this but hes hooking up with her, that explains all the smiley faces and cryptic texts. Chicks don't sell weed (normally). Send yourself the texts. And confront him.
If you feel there's something wrong most likely your right! And smiley faces and he has to be quick? It's kinda fishy to me! Just wait and see what happens. Just keep your eye open.
You may need to copy his texts and send them to yourself so you have proof in case he decides to delete and lie about it. I had to do that once with an ex.
"Be there soon but I have to be quick" is not something you say to someone you're buying weed from.
Girls don't usually sell weed honestly you sure he isnt hooking up with her? The situation sounds messed up
I've been there, a long time ago before my relationship became normal
You need to let him know that you are okay with him smoking. But lets get real, this has alot more to it then just smoking. For him to text any girl for any reason at midnight is not right. Even if he says its just to buy weed, I'm sure their is many other people he could get it from. And he enjoys seeing and smoking with her at the very least. You need to confront him and tell him if he feels the need to hang out with girls like that, that he is risking losing his family
Good luck and i hope his *** matures up
I would be soo upset, definetly ask hin hun, oh and keep us in the loop :)
You have to ask cause ether he is smoking or cheating. Everytime i get a funny feeling I look through my husbands phone and every time he was doing stuff he shouldnt be doing. If hes smoking that's fine dont hide it
After you calm down, ask him about it. Explain that, if he is smoking, you would rather know than have him sneaking it. And also point out that, being pregnant, it is important for you to know so that you can take the proper measures to protect your baby. You are right, it does sound sneaky and suspicious, but calm down and discuss it with him. He may have a reasonable explanation for it all
I'd ask him about it tell him you know that he has been texting this girl. Also I would take her number down just incase the text get deleted and he denies it. But also you might have to approach the situation in a way he doesn't shut down and not say anything to you. Good luck :)
Oh and if it makes any difference this is the first time iv ever gone through his phone it was just laying there and I thought it would be funny to change his picture and ringtone
i would be mad to.. ask him out right.. ur smokin again aint ya! i would.. or just keep monitoring whats happening.. good luck hun x
Sorry about the length lol