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So upset. I had my twins a couple weeks ago, and I suddenly found out that my boyfriend has a serious porn addiction problem. He literally watches porn multiple times every single day,even after we do stuff,and he lies about it to me even though I have the proof right in front of his face, he sometimes even blames his brother for viewing it on his cell phone,which to me is complete bull. He had an appointment for a therapist today,but now supposedly he has to work because his job "changed" his hours at the last minute. I'm just about fed up with him now, and not in the mood stressing over this when I have to worry about my babies being in the nicu. It's just too much. -_-
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I don't see the big deal in people watching porn but if it effects you this much might be best to walk away  from him. Goodluck
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Wow...so inconsiderate and disrespectful..you'll get a lot of "porn isn't bad" "at least he's not cheating" "at least he's not bothering you for sex" "my hubby watches porn and I don't care" "lighten up and let him live a little"....no.hes YOUR BOYFRIEND.no one else's..if you don't like it then tell him to shape up or ship out!it is not okay.porn is addictive and in my opinion,is a form of cheating.anytime you fantasize and get off to some one else besides your hubby/bf/gf/wife it is cheating..and eventually could lead to actually sleeping with someone else if they get the urge..don't let people on here tell you that it's okay and that your wrong to feel this way bc YOU ARE NOT.it is selfish of him..your having to wait for sex so why shouldn't he have to wait to get off too..if he really loved you he wouldn't care nothing about seeing another female go at it with some random stranger and he would most definitely stop if he knew it made you upset..it's about respect and love and I understand where your coming from..yeah he has needs but so do you and if you have to wait so should he.my hubby did and so can anyone else.he won't have a problem with it if he really truly cares about you.


Like I said,he'd shape up or ship out girl.dont put up with that mess.your going through enough already and he should see that!if not then he doesn't deserve you!
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