Very insecure??:(

[V_salinas16]

are any of u ladies to insecure now?? I'm sooo jealous of any skinny or pretty girl because I feel like my husband will look at them the wrong way & stuff! Idk what to do to change the way I think of it!:( but it just hurts me! Advise ladies?:(

[brookerob]

I am the same way. This is my 1st pregnancy, the most I've ever weighed before so I feel very self conscious. I always feel like my boyfriend isn't satisfied with the way I look either but I know he understands I have a child inside of me so we are not going to look the same I'm sure you're husband understands too. It will be over soon enough and it will all be worth it. Good luck to you!

[anwhatin1]

Well lots of sadness from u ladies on your opinion about yourselves be pregnant.
Listen own your pregnancy not everyone can do what u can. Your bodies are beautiful when pregnant and many men like that look. I feel my most confident when I am pregnant  and u all should too.
Your body has change but it changes in a way that is beautiful and it is carrying a life. Also u don't have to feel fat as 7 r not fat it is a baby.
I have all the feelings u guys have everyday of my life except when I am pregnant. I am not a skinny girl or a girl girl but my bf loves me no matter what.
I say enjoy being pregnant it is so rare this happens to u now a days most people only have 1 or 2 kids.

[V_salinas16]

Thank u ladies im glad I'm not alone!:( me & my husband love eachother a lot to we're high school sweethearts! But lately I've just noticed he likes to wonder off at girls a lot & it just hurts me so much to even think about him looking at another pretty woman or talk to them! My husband is in the military also and after he got back last year I seen some stuff on his phone that really bugged me so muchh we were still boyfriend and girlfriend at the time! We even broke up for 2 weeks! He didn't cheat but just pictures and stuff that he had on his phone is what i think made me this way! We worked it out & he changed his ways which im very thankful! But is still so hard to get those pictures out of my head til this day I bring them up! Even though we're married now I still bring it up:( I wanna change the way I am but how can I wen he just wonders off like this?

[smallfry23]

I felt that way with furst baby i had but i said u know if he is looking while im mot paun attention.. Well i cant really say i blame him if he is i look at a bug beef cake if he walks in my eye signt.. Its normal doesnt mean ur cheating or watchin porn or anything. My husbands and i r very loyal to eachother but we r open.. He knows id die if channing tatum was in front of me in a store line and hed go bananas over kate uptop. But he loves me i trust me he trust me etc we know whats wrong and whats right. And hes never loved me more and im having our third baby im 23 hes 25 im a stay at home mom we have snap fitness memberships and ges in the army.. And trust me..he gets looks.. Alot ;) he got hit on in front of me a week after we were married and i busted up laughing at the girl in front of her and he just laughed too. Just have faith if u trust him.

[Mizuki_Sensei]

I am a bit insecure, but I agree with Jeadams17, having a supporting partner will definitely put your mind at ease. My fiancé always thinks I am beautiful and even with these hormonal changes (Like acne, etc), he constantly tells me how beautiful I am and how he loves me. ♡ Lucky for me, My fiancé and I think alike, we find no one else attractive, but each other. (: You should definitely talk to your partner about it.

[Briley_and_Teagans_mommy]

So glad to see I'm not the only one going hormonally insane lol! Must be normal to feel insecure while pregnant. I'm super jealous and jump to conclusions I shouldn't even think about. I thought I was going nuts! lol!

[moonkeeper24]

It's completely normal, I went thru this when I was pregnant with my daughter but just remember you are carrying a growing baby inside you, and with alot of determination after your baby is born you can go back to how you use to look. Hang in there, pregnancy is a beautiful thing enjoy it .

[NolaM]

Wow I thought I was the only one yes I feel like a cow and the hot looking girls don't make it easy lol but I know once baby comes I'll work hard to get my body back.

[jeadams17]

I agree with alicebell, it's a baby not fat. & I think my bump is cute and my boyfriend & I are still all over each other and he's always telling me how beautiful I am & how I'm not fat at all. So I don't know if having support from your partner would help but I've always thought pregnant women were beautiful

[superchoc]

I was always like that during pregnancies, drove me nuts! At times i didnt want my husband near me because what i was assuming he was thinking! Have a word with your other half. Be honest and hopefully he will reassure you ona  regular basis. Definately one of the downsides of the hormones!x

[Patriciaaa02]

I feel the same exact way ! I've never been the jealous type but now I'm sooo jealous over anything cause I don't feel confident anymore

[alicebell92]

I just like to remember that we are carrying a baby it's not fat it's our unborn child :) I always loved my bump with 1st pregnancy and can't wait to get it back again I missed it when it was gone