advice ! long story

[mommymari_]

Idk what to think about this but sometimes I don't agree but than at the same time everyone needs A break. My cousin who I love dearly has A 2 year old daughter & basically her mom takes
Care of her daughter cause her baby daddy & family isn't involved so half the time my cousin goes out almost everyday or everyweeevery week & drinks & does drugs & her mom takes care of her daughter. my cousin is 24 & has a minimum wage job & doesn't seem to have the time to "study" for her beauty license cause she would rather go out & spend her nights partying.

[Emily_MHManager]

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[AOlivia94]

I dont know what advice you expect its her life she's going to keep doing what she wants uunfortunately

[sutton19]

An if you're that worried about her. Then say something to her.

[sutton19]

Well she's a grown woman an she is going to do what she wants weather you approve or not.  But you really shouldn't stress over it hun. Its not good for you or your baby.

[mommymari_]

& as for bashing her I didn't reveal names nor does anyone know who I am.

[mommymari_]

That's your opinion but I don't want my cousin to ruin opportunities for herself so as A family member I do care . Yes I have bigger things to worry about but when it comes to my family I would like to see them make something out of themselves & not be in the street.

[sutton19]

Sorry if this sounds rude but why do you care so much what she chooses to go out an do? If It doesn't affect your life an its only messing her life up. So my question is why do you care hun? An why does it matter so much what she does on her spare time? I have a cousin that does the same exact thing every weekend so I know what you mean. An it's really not fare to her child.  But I don't come on here an bash her for it. Sry I just don't understand why you posted about it, unless it affects you an your life in someway.  Not trying to be rude or anything, just trying to understand why you posted about it.

[LadyBeeley]

I know what you mean momma. Theres a woman I knew who would pretend to be a dead man possessing her body and would make her son acknowledge her randomly as uncle gabe. She was actually my ex roommate and pretended my foster brother who just committed suicide was coming bsck and she would try to get me to have sex with her. Unfortunately being a bad mom or not there for your child isnt illegal :-/ theres times I get really upset, then times when I realize theres good out there and eventually the right thing will happen, whatever it is. Jist have faith :)