chance to vent... NOW!!!!

[mommyoftrez]

Now since it seems there is alot of stress n of course pregnancy has us all emotional n blasting off on people... i would like to let everyone vent of their problems maybe then just maybe this site will became informative n not a forum where theres grauchy preggers judging everyone that ask a question

[cher01]

Am sorry dear and I don't know your circumstances. But seems your parents are not happy,  maybe disappointed since you are still young. Sometimes parents feel let down ( especially if they had other wishes that have been affected by the preg.  Try to talk to them in a sober and calm way so that you understand them.

[mommygg]

Well im pregnant with my 2nd child but my husbands mother just passed away in jan and we found out on feb I was prego and I feel like no one is excited about this baby even him I know he is hurting but he doesnt seem to show any sort of intrests towards the baby he never asks how i feel or how many wks i am or if i have a doc appt hr also works out of town so i only see him on the wkends which doesnt help and I feel like my mom and sister dont really care they never ask me anything about the baby I feel like there being fake and pretending to be happy for me I feel like im in this all alone and its killing my excitement to see that there not excited :/ I dont want them to be up my *** asking question but it seems they dont mention the baby unless I bring it up I think just for the rest of my pregnancy I wont mention anything about the baby to anyone

[lena6238]

I'm just getting so freaking anxious to get this baby out! I know I'm early 28wks but I just want some sort of sign that this is coming to an end. Its not that I'm miserable I just want my baby girl out! I've went from working 25 hours a week to 40 on my feet with odd hours. I just want to rest. my car broke down(fixed 300$ later). My bf is becoming clingy and he doesn't understand why I just want to be left alone to relax. There is cat hair everywhere! I vaccuum once a day! I feel as big as a house. None of my clothes fit. Now I have to find a last minute gift for my mothers bday which is tmro. I completely forgot..... Ahhh I feel a little better now though. :)

[mommyoftrez]

once your baby born she wont last long there cus shell be having her baby .. so i would stay... lol n maybe she wont come bck n your me happy with out the ********

[kenziehutch]

Where to start, I got into a fender bender on my way home from work. And to top that off this girl I work with has been a complete ***** to me. She is also pregnant and 10 weeks behind me. She continuously says mean things about me being pregnant. Our managers sat us down and had us talk things out which consisted of her calling me a ***** and saying I need to rethink who my friends are there. And that she isnt the only one who has bad **** to say about me. Im trying to stay on the bright side of things. I am so excited about having my baby girl in july. I dont want to let some ***** keep me down. I dont even know if I want to go back after my baby is born. Im really trying to not stress too much about it.

[mommyoftrez]

-_- i just need to cry really bad........ let every thing out

[lisas9]

I went through a similar thing. My other half went to work abroad when I was 2 months pregnant. Our baby boy is now 3 weeks old and he is still out there! We have 3 other children and I have such little support I had to pay for childcare when I went into labour, which was overnight so hard to find and cost a fortune. Our baby also has not been well so been in and out of hospital. Also struggling with sleepless nights, constant feeding and keeping some kind of routine for the other children. It's all worth it but Im sick of doing it all alone

[mommyoftrez]

well aint life a bisssshhhh... hubby decided to stay another week over where his working because there is no kind of job he does here..... pfffff... i k.ow we need the money but i hate knowing i have no one here..... to help in that momment of having my bby no one to take my bbys with them.... im about to cry my eyes outttt..... and i know if i have my bby with out him beeing there ill be hurt and pissed at himmm..... and wont be as happy as i tought im always stuck by myself in these 4 walls every single day... :'[ SORRY HAD TO LET IT OUT

[confusedrose]

Thanks. I have tried talking to them. I try every Sunday when I turn a different week. Lol. Maybe someday soon they'll b helpful.

[dab20]

Thanks guys, I know I can just spread it out over time, its just frustrating, and my physical limitations are frustrating too!

Confusedrose, I'm so sorry to hear your parents aren't being supportive. I am also young, I'm 20, and having spontaneous twins. Try and talk to them about being more positive and how stressful it is for you. Just remember you can do this and there are lots of resources for single mommies especially of twins!

[ShellyLette]

I'm currently annoyed with having to move AGAIN, and the reason we have to move. We just moved into this place 2 months ago and because my babies father and his grandmother(its one of her properties) got into an argument about my baby shower we were told to look for another place to live. Even though we pay rent on time and pay the utilities. But she's a real *****, I swear she's messed up in the head. Anywho the bright side is we just signed a new lease and won't have to put up with her ****!

[confusedrose]

I'm mad and sad because I feel like I'm doing this alone. Sure I'm only 18 but couldn't my parents atleast try and be supportive??? Their really stressing me out!! And I'm a ftm due with twins. I really want my dad there when I have the babies but if he keeps ignoring me that's not gonna happen.I live with him and he ignores me! And as for my mom I don't need her yelling at me every five seconds well I'm giving birth!

[gatorgrl12]

Aw. Dab20 you just have to rest. Everything else can wait. Growing one baby is hard work! Growing two i could only imagine girl and im sure your doing your best!

[mommyoftrez]

ohh man.. hun just do what you can do dont do all in one day... take it slow n let him know you are really tired n really need to be careful for your babies health

[dab20]

I'm currently really annoyed because my fiance thinks that all the household chores are mine because i quit working. I didn't quit working to stay home and be a housewife! I quit because I cant do my job anymore and to get some freaking rest before these babies come! Anytime I ask him to do anything around here he has a hissy fit. Ugh! I'm 7 months pregnant with twins for goodness sakes!

[BabyTurnip]

Lol i met to write "moving closer to my family"

[mommyoftrez]

AMEN to that.....

[BabyTurnip]

Im just pissed off i have to wait two more months before finally (after 4yrs) being close to my family! Ill be six months and i wouldnt want anything stopping me to be near my parents and sister. Good thing is my hubby supports this 100% :) sometimes i get bad days but i know when people post here they are not looking to be judge they just want opinion and reassuring words :) and i am in no position to judge anyone but i have lots of good words to share with everyone

[gatorgrl12]

My husband worked really hard today :( so he came home and went right to bed its only 6:00! I know he is exhausted but i really wanted to have a movie night after the kiddos went to sleep. :( more sad then mad. Lol. Just have make best of it and take a nice bubbly bath with some good music.

[mommyoftrez]

ill be the first....

im pissed off because the only support i have my hubby may not be here when baby is born... but that dosent make me blast off on people.... even if i feel like ripping someeones head off but i rather keep calm...