I'm 10 weeks and I'm coming up on my first appointment I'm very nervous as well.
It takes longer because we got extra cushion. The baby is fine. And I didn't feel kicks to about 20+ weeks.
I know exactly how you feels. I'm really fat so it took extra time to find one but once they did everything is fine.
That's exactly how I feel
I was that way at first. I was scare that I was going to have a miscarriage and I had been very sick. It was always a relief to me to hear the heartbeat. There were a few times that they had trouble finding the heartbeat and so it took longer.