i feel like i cant have sex with my husband

[wiggles2015]

Tmi. But anyways. Me and my husband were trying to do it last night and it lasted 1 min. Because I was really dry down there and it kind of hurt. Didn't make me bleed or anything. And every since then I've felt this weird pressure on my back it doesby hurt it just feels weird. So I called my doc. She had me come in to see if it was the start of early labor. No it wasn't that. And ever since we tried last night everytime I pee it stings. So my doc checked for a uti and other crap nothing. I asked of she could look down there and see if he had Maybe ripped down there or something. And she said it looked a little irritated due to the dryness of trying to have sex. I was really wet at ffirst in the beginning. And we were going soft. But then I got really dry. So she gave me some stuff to make it feel better well it feels better but I still feel the tightness on my lower stomach and my back. And I kept feeling it so I went in again. She check to see if I was going to early labor. She did an ultrasound. Everything was fine. Has this ever happen to anybody else. And yes I'm a worry wart. But I'm a ftm.

[Gelica36]

Try using a lubricant that is water based. I too am allergic to most lubricants. I use KY Jelly, it's clear and water based. Works great. :)

[NCazier]

I've heard you can use coconut oil as lubricant.

[wiggles2015]

MoSt lubricants I have allergies to and idk what kind I'd be ok with. Lol

[mama_2_bee]

Ever since I got pregnant I stay really dry down there and it hurts to have sex so we went and bought lubricant it helps a lot try buying some to see if it works for you.

[jaz_danny0618]

Have you tired lubricant to help you stay wet ? Js wondering it may help (:

[wiggles2015]

Oh forgot to put why I feel like I can't have sex. I feel like I can't because everytone we try to it seems I to dry.