i really need help please. im scared :(

[anathea_anne19]

Hope you can help. After we had intercourse last 20th nov, a few days after i experienced white discharge and my period should be on 25th nov, but its not yet coming. 9th day after our intercourse i still have this white discharge and a little bit cramp. Is this a posiibility im pregnant? Im scared i might be that. Anyone that can help? And same experience with me?

[bjm_1125]

Listen, don't have sex if you don't wanna get pregnant. I hate more than anything when a girl acts this freaked out over a pregnancy scare but you obviously know when you have sex that's what happens!

[anathea_anne19]

Sorry for the lte reponse because ive been so stressed looking for more infos about this. Im so freaking out. Ok ill try that. Thankyou ! :)

[ksnook]

Download pink pad it's an awesome fertility tracker just enter your period and it shows days to avoid having sex if you don't want to get pregnant and if you also check you basal temp every am in the morning before you get out of bed and input this data you can help pin point on average how many days after your period you ovulate cuz there's a spike in you temp I believe it's right after you ovulated so then you can input the exact day you did and it helps track it more accurately and just go to the dollar store and get a couple pregnancy tests there sensitivity to Hcg is only 25% but it's a cheap way to be able to test if it comes negative then you could wait another week or the day your due take one in the AM if there's nothing there and if there's a faint line even then you could be. That's you que to get a higher sensitivity test or just test 3 days later and if it still comes up then proceed how expected...

[anathea_anne19]

Is it a sign of pregnancy? :(

[figurechick]

Taking charge of your fertility is a great book that will tell you all about your body and fertility. That sort of fluid comes right before ovulation.

[anathea_anne19]

Thankyou so much!

[anathea_anne19]

It has no odor :(

[anathea_anne19]

Thankyou so much for that quite advise and explanation!i understand it all. Im not that scared anymore. i just have to take the hpt. When should i take?

[Tanya830]

If the discharge has a odor it can be a infection.

[KLAMotherofTwo]

Hey I understand your reason for being scared but white discharge is not just a sign for ovulation, nor early pregnancy it could mean alot of different things. Normally you ovulation begins 2/3 weeks after your cycle. In which your chances of getting pregnant are high. If you had unprotected sex just 5 days before your cycle 9/10 your not pregnant. Again white discharge may mean several different things and sometimes it's a signal your cycle is just days away. I suggest waiting another week if you still dont receive a cycle contact your doctor to make an appointment Or simply take a home pregnancy test

[fertile_mertile]

Ur most fertile after the week after ur period

[anathea_anne19]

Thankyou so much for your advise. I really appreciate and learned a lot. How many days before i have period is my infertile days? Please help i really dont know what to do. :(

[BinaBops]

First off, the pulling out before he had ejaculated is not a method of contraception. A guy produces 'pre ***' which also contains sperm, he doesn't even know whether he is producing this when he is inside you. Please, if you don't want to get pregnant then use a condom or birth control.
The chances of you having conceived from 20th Nov are very slight. Typically women are fertile around 2 weeks after the first day of their last period. This would put you no where near ovulation. Of course, things differ from women to women and you could somehow end up pregnant, although my personal opinion is that you would not be, given the days you have provided.
Sperm can live inside a women for days, some of the white discharge you say you are experiencing could be explained if he ejaculated inside you, which you say he did not. Take a pregnancy test 2 weeks after a missed period and go from there.

[anathea_anne19]

Thankyou so much! :( im really thankful for that answer. But im scared. Why do i have this white discharge after the days of our intercourse? Am i pregnant? He didnt actually *** inside me. I am thinking that there is a first come out of *** inside me before he pulled it out. My period is not yerlt coming. Im real really scared that im pregnant:'(

[nanulty]

Hello..20th u had intercoarse, and 25th was your period date..this says that when u had the intercoarse,you werent in your fertile days.But this may not mean your not pregnant. What your experiencing mayb hormonal changes and this gives green light that you might conceive in your next intercoarse! P.s make it on your fertile days! Goodluck!