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idk what to do

Im 30 weeks n my boyfriend has been smokeing fake weed :(
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A man smoked this stuff in my state (Louisiana) and went home and cut his baby out of his wife's belly. It was all over the news about a year ago. It saddens me how some people take drugs so lightly when it is a serious matter. Best wishes hun.
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Sounds like you got over high but thats beside the point.. he needs to stop smoking point blank and you just gotta keep putting your foot down and say either its the spice or your family. Threaten to leave him maybe he will stop. Maybe he needs to look at the side effects if he hasn't already. You're in a serious situation and if hes just set on not changing then you're gunna have to decide if you're still gunna be with him until he decides to stop.
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What bothers me is still that he drove while high off of it!!! With me n his baby!!!!
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I wouldnt care if it was weed :(... i smoked it once 3 years ago with him and i literaly thought i was gunna die, i took 3 hits, i triped for 5 hours was blacking out n throwing up n i felt like my body was curling in on its self! He was with me yet he still is gunna do it?!?!? What the heck really.... if he wasnt in trouble with the law (got caught with weed) he could smoke weed all he wanted but he got in trouble. Im more disapointed hes been lyeing to me about not smokin this crap than mad... im mad but like i said im more disapointed about the lies. Earlyer when he came n picked me up (me being 30weeks) he was high on it... i noticed when we got to his house his eyes were bloodshot and his puples were huge. Why would he put his child in danger like that!!! Tripin on crap that rots your brain and driving?!!! Im really upset to the point hes been asleep for 2 hours n i cant sleep cause its on my mind. I tryed wakin him up but he just went back to sleep so i got up and am now in a chair in his room cause im to uncomfortable to lay down
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He needs to stop smoking that spice. It's a synthetic marijuana and has side effects that the real stuff doesn't even have. He's better off smoking the real or not smoking at all it could really cause him problems
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I seriously have to tell you a story about the fake weed thing. My high school years I was a big pothead!! My friends and I smoked a lot!! My best friend went off to the Navy and had a hard time letting it go and started smoking spice. He had some problems and came was discharged. I knew that he smoked spice and I have smoked it before to so I know how it makes you feel and he wAs acting insane! I thought he was on something he was in my kitchen making a sandwich falling all over the place couldn't talk to to me when he did talk he made no sense. I pled with him to tell me what he had taken and he swore it was the spice. I made him lay on the couch his body swell like a huge balloon I was crying so scared I thought He was gonna die. I stayed up with him all night. The next morning He got up and went to the bathroom he was acting completely back to normal. I went to the bathroom after him and I smelt spice I knew he went and smoked it in the bathroom. Within 10 min he was was completely out of it again couldn't talk swollen body. I knew it was going to kill him if he continued to do. I took his picture to all the smoke shops in town pleaded with them to never sell to him took his car keys away because I didn't want him to drive out of town and go get it. And he tryed he tryed to be so sneaky and get it He was completely addicted. If your boyfriend wants to smoke real weed okay but please take that spice away!! The story is much longer but my best fried lost everything because of the spice it had over time turned him into a differe person!
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My husband does weed but not the fake stuff although i have heard different stories about it. I think everyone is different and it effects them differently some having problems and some dont. Maybe check for any problems with breathing to ease your mind and give him the choice. If he wants to smoke it he goes in a different room to the one your in while he does it that was you dont breath it in.
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He needs to quit smoking that stuff.  A few years ago when it first started getting really popular I smoked it for about a month. I stopped because I started hallucinating even when I wasn't high. Weed is fine but that spice stuff is poison.
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My bil uses that stuff, he lost crazy weight, he thinks hispanics who look white are the devil honestly almost nothing he says or believes dont make sense, im not going to lie, he takes exellent care of my sister and niece, but he isnt the man we knew at all.
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My old roommates did that, they started ignoring their 1 year old and new born her son came out with breathing problems Cuz she used it while pregnant. And they would fall asleep while smoking it. When they couldn't get that high they started using dope
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People where I live were smoking that stuff soooo much for a while. Then they county banned stores from selling it so not so many people are smoking it. There were several teenagers sent to the hospital from smoking it.
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My boyfriend smoked that stuff for a while. I hated it. I never cared if he smoked pot but that fake stuff just seems crazy to me. You have no idea what it is! If I dried up some leaves and sprayed windex on it would you smoke it?!?! Thats basically all it is. Some kind of leaves with unknown amounts if chemicals sprayed on it. No one knows what kind of effects that stuff will have on your mind and body.
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I see nothing wrong with marijuana either... hes smokeing that spice shitz
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To be honest I see nothing wrong with Marijuana. Just as long as it's not tobacco. Some doctors give you the okay some don't . I did my research and talked to many mom's and I see nothing bad... Their children are very advanced for their ages and really smart.
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