is anyone else irritated by their partners?

[Tilly_Jay]

Im 17w6d pregnant with my first baby and I can't stand my partner. Most days I adore him then others I can't bare to be around him. Constantly telling him to leave and never come back. This will be his 3rd child to 3 different woman, one to a long term partner while really young and the 2nd to a fling...now me. We're now dealing with his child support payments while trying to prepare for this bubba. I've accepted his past life but I feel like we (the new baby and I) are suffering for his past mistakes and it makes my blood boil. He's a changed man and I love him for it but how do I get past that urge to up and leave him? I work full time and have always been independent so its not like I dont pull my own weight...sorry for the novel :/

[Tilly_Jay]

I'm a bit like that with people who make a fuss over me to the point where they must think being pregnant is a disability. I'm very independent and have been all my life, now all of a sudden I can't do this, can't do that, had a relative tell me I can't cook near a stove because over heating my tummy will give baby blisters. I know they mean well but there is a fine line between reality and stupidity

[Tilly_Jay]

I have my ups and downs, mainly ups so maybe we're having a girl! lol

[ashlii00]

Haha i am so glad im not alone! Im a ftm and the father has 3 other children from a past relation ship and i love them to bits. But some days i cant stand him! I dont allow him to sleep in bed next to me when hes been drinkinnor smoking cos it turns my stomach! Urrghh who ever said its easy being pregnant. Morning sickness kicked in the other day and its bloody awful! Ive got ages to go aswell lol. I dno how far gone i am to be exact but im around 6w lol xx

[Pioja503]

Im 22w 6d and im always arguing with my fiance he works a full time job I do 34 hours a week plus school them I have to ho home to cook n clean while he is all relax playing video games it just **** me off so bad because i feel that he doesn't have any consideration with the fact that I also work plus ho school and im pregnant with my first baby. And its annoying because all he makes is for him because I also play bills plus my car iss n gas n my phone. ..ugh its just annoying to have him are I don't even want him in bed next to me because he takes my space and now with the belly its hard to fall asleep

[dyingangel246]

I told my fiance he smelled bad last night after he came home from work. I felt awful about it but was angry because it seemed like he was trying to make me the bad guy. I tried to tell him that my sense of smell is heightened now but he said it was bs and that made me more angry. When it came time for bed I cringed when he got into bed with me even though he had showered. I have also been super annoyed with my mom, everything she says and does just tick me off. It's sad cause she's excited to be grandma and I don't want to be near her.

[Amhrea]

My hubby crawled my flesh with my boys and I was drawn to him with my girls.  He was really hurt one day when I told him he made me want to vomit and then I constantly reminded myself to be nice. You are not alone. I am 11 weeks and liking him so far so this must be a girl lol.

[jlin91]

Irritated wouldn't even begin to cover it...lol...im 28 weeks with our second boy ..been together 5 years...but omg he is so damn lazy...all he wants to do is play video games and drink..won't even try getting a job...oh and sleeps all day whether we have things that need to get done or not...so yea you are not alone

[202Tia]

What you are experiencing is perfectly normal. I'm married and have been for 8 years. This is my second pregnancy in the last 4 year stretch and some days I feel the same way. Everyone and everything aannoys me to no end. You just have o be patient and remind yourself its the hormones not you and that you love him. It will pass hopefully soon. Good luck.

[Love_N_Hate]

Novels are fine lol yours isn't the longest one. And it's normal for you to feel irritated. I'm 30 weeks 4 days and I'm irritated by everyone. It's just the hormones. The best thing to do when you get irritated is to do something you enjoy to do for yourself so you can just breath. It always helps. Congrats on the baby.