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is it normal or shallow
Is it normal to be worried that ypur cjild may not b a cutie pie or is that just shallow?
I think mixed babies are the cutest babies ever. And yeah you're right about the gene he has a cute little girl and her mom is hispanic too so we'll see what my babygirl looks like. Its just a blessing to even carry a baby so nomatter what you're going to love your baby
I think all babies look like Winston Churchill or Mr. Magoo, black, white hispanic asian or whatever. lol
Nickley3 your totally tight they all look a litrle funny coming out they are wet and have that funny head not until like day 3 thwy look human and cute lol
Ssi1993 yea my son is mixed black and whitw and his dad it hott and my daughter will b full black but her dad is sexy also lol u juat never know what u get out the gene pool. Amd ultrasounds make them look so funny she looks like she has wings on her head instead of ears lol
I will be honest. brand new babies are not cute. they kind of look like aliens. their heads are still come like and a lot have weird marks from where they were pressed against you bones and stuff. And yet, I have never seen a mother look at that tiny thing and say "ew! It's ugly" that baby will be the most beautiful thing to you. And you will love her istantly.
Yeah my 1st is hispanic and her dad is cute but the 2nd one is mixed with black.and the babys dad isnt cute i hate to sound like an a**hole but hes not. But either way shes my baby and ill love her and i know shes gonna be cute even if noone else thinks she is.
Wow!!! Korean with gray eyes and blonde hair sounds like a beautiful child. And km having a girl this time. My son was gorgeous i just want my little girl to be the same. I feel bad for even feeling this way but i do. And it doesnt help my feiends joke around and say its going to look like some kind of animal. I knlw they are only joking so i dont get offended at all
My oldest daughter is a quarter Korean. I always pictured having this little China doll baby. Well she came out blonde headed with big gray eyes. She was not the cutest baby. My cousin even asked my mom if something was wrong with her. She's 14 now and is absolutely gorgeous. She has dark skin, beautiful gray eyes and blonde hair down to her waist. And she's a sweet girl too. My youngest is 9 so she is going through that little goofy stage where they loose their teeth and you have to nag them to comb their hair and take a bath. It's funny cause my boys were beautiful babies but my girls were just average.
So totally normal! With my first I was so worries people were lying to me just to be nice lol! He really is a cutie though!
I think thays what im nervous about ssi1993 my first child a boy is mixed and is adorable but he looks like me amd im not too bad looking lol and this is my little girk im pregnant with this tie and shea not going to ne mixed but from the ultrasound she looks like me. Not saying her father is uglt because hes not at all bur u never know how your genes mix with someone elses
First off, ugly and pretty change over a person's life. Only the rare few are beautiful as children and beautiful as grown-ups. Meaning, even if your baby is not a cutie as a little one, it is anyone's guess how he or she will look when older.
Second, if someone was born a supermodel or gorgeous stud and stayed that way all through life, he or she will be get shortchanged in some ways on personal development, because people react differently to those who are unusually lovely. I wouldn't wish early gorgeousness on someone even if he or she became much more attractive later on. Being treated as a normal person is how we learn to be a normal person.
Third, and this is the most important, a happy and cheerful person *is* beautiful, and a lovely person with a lousy attitude is not beautiful. Look at some of the famous people who are not handsome or beautiful -- Bette Midler, Benecio del Toro, Jimmy Durante, Barbra Streisand -- who are interesting or charming or funny, and some of the famous attractive people who have proven to be jerks or self-indulgent train wrecks (a list too long to count, let's just say Lindsay Lohan and leave it at that). You are as beautiful as you become, not as you are born.
I was interested once to see a spread once in a magazine of celebrity babies, it had an array of photos of just the faces of at least fifty kids on a two-page spread, and although these were the children of the most attractive people on the planet, only one of them was strikingly lovely. And that was a daughter of a famous man who is not known for his looks! All the kids of the beautiful moms looked OK, but not arrestingly gorgeous.
Guess what I'm saying is, we get what we get (as mommies) and as kids we look like what our genetic package says to look like, but as life goes along, we do with it what we do. And that is what makes us beautiful or not.
Second, if someone was born a supermodel or gorgeous stud and stayed that way all through life, he or she will be get shortchanged in some ways on personal development, because people react differently to those who are unusually lovely. I wouldn't wish early gorgeousness on someone even if he or she became much more attractive later on. Being treated as a normal person is how we learn to be a normal person.
Third, and this is the most important, a happy and cheerful person *is* beautiful, and a lovely person with a lousy attitude is not beautiful. Look at some of the famous people who are not handsome or beautiful -- Bette Midler, Benecio del Toro, Jimmy Durante, Barbra Streisand -- who are interesting or charming or funny, and some of the famous attractive people who have proven to be jerks or self-indulgent train wrecks (a list too long to count, let's just say Lindsay Lohan and leave it at that). You are as beautiful as you become, not as you are born.
I was interested once to see a spread once in a magazine of celebrity babies, it had an array of photos of just the faces of at least fifty kids on a two-page spread, and although these were the children of the most attractive people on the planet, only one of them was strikingly lovely. And that was a daughter of a famous man who is not known for his looks! All the kids of the beautiful moms looked OK, but not arrestingly gorgeous.
Guess what I'm saying is, we get what we get (as mommies) and as kids we look like what our genetic package says to look like, but as life goes along, we do with it what we do. And that is what makes us beautiful or not.
With my first daughter i told my mom what if people think my babys ugly when shes born and she would tell me it doesnt matter what people think. Shes yours and nomatter what shes gonna be cute. The day i had her one person said she was ugly and i got so pissed because it was my little brother, now thats shes 4yrs old he says shes the cutest little girl. But now im having another girl and she has a different daddy and her dads UGLY lol so im worried
Awww kelly i almost shed a tear lol
It's completely normal to worry about that but That baby is going to be the most perfect thing your eyes have ever seen no matter what. She's going to be easy more beautiful than you could ever imagine trust me :)
Lol ok thx that makes me feel better. Ive waited so long 7 years to b exact for a little girl and im just so scared shes not going to b wat i imagine. But either way i will love her of course
Yes completely normal, but I promise once they put your baby in your arms you will think they are the cutest baby in the world. I look back on some of my kids pics and I'm like "dang they were kind of on the homely side there." Lol
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