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is this wrong?

Me and the girl my bd has been cheating on me with are setting him up to get caught.. is that wrong? I think he deserves it for being so stupid.
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8377023 tn?1399509160
Exactly what kthomp14 said. You gotta do what you gotta do sometimes
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Nice! That's so awesome of you. He deserves it. Stay strong and don't let him pull you back! You're so much better without him :) way to do what's best for you and your baby!
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Why would she continue to talk to him knowing ur prego? I hope u don't go back to him! Hes probably texted her aswell!
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You are awesome. I think that's great that you and the other gal worked together to set him up instead of fighting over him. Hopefully he feels like the idiot that he is! I hope everyone on this forum having cheating/relationship issues like this can learn something from your story.
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Wow. I wish mine would maybe take better care of himself and take some attention off his phone to make a mistake like that. I caught him deleting texts at the beginning of our relationship and chewed him out for it so now he's really good at it... :-( glad you figured it out tho! As horrible as it may sound I really envy you. It sounds like even though a lot of girls would break this has already made you stronger. You're going to be a great mom and you don't need an idiot that can't even own up to his mistakes. So many red flags about this guy I really hope you stay strong and never let him pull you back. <3
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Def deserves it!
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Therws soooo many other women on here that need your same courage....thats awesome..I woulda did the pregnacy test to though..lol im soo proud if you ;)
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10093101 tn?1408617824
You go girl! I would have done the same exact thing!!!! I'm sorry that it happened to you but you'll find a man that loves both you and your baby! Best of luck during the rest of your pregnancy!
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8377023 tn?1399509160
Im so glad your done with that dumb ***. Once a cheater always a cheater
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@melinor I actually figured it out by going through his phone. I had a feeling he was doing something behind my back so I looked and of course he was stupid enough to leave every piece of evidence behind. I called the girl and we talked about everything, we were both so mad at him we just decided to get him together. Idk what to tell you about your suspicions just bcuz I don't know your guy but this slimeball I just broke up with had it coming.. just remember what's done in the dark comes to the light, someway..
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UPDATE!!!!

So when he saw us together he automatically played dumb! He asked if we were friends or something (the nerve of this guy).. after we both chew him out he says that he shouldnt have to explain what I already know.. he still never admitted to the freaking truth! So I politely got in my car, the girl followed and we left him standing there without another word. He text me a couple minutes after I drove off and said "Really cute" which of course I knew he was only doing that to make me think it didn't bother him. I ignored him and he text me a little later saying that those weren't his intentions and that he was just using her but really wanted me.. I STILL ignored him and still am as I type this. He's such a pathetic cowards and I'm so glad I'm done with him.
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8171562 tn?1408628833
I'm currious how the outcome played out! I went through the same thing when I was pregnant with my last baby, my exes gf called me accusing me if being the other woman, when he and I had a 2yr, stilled lived together, slept together, had a baby due in 4wks time at the time she contacted me... Needless to say I left his *** and now 4yrs later happily married to a wonderful man that love my children and expecting our first together.
Things happen for a reason
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Update? :)
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I think it's a great idea! If he gets off easy then he'll never learn! Let us know how it goes down :)
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Not wrong at all and I hope you stop dealing with him after. It makes no sense to set him up and still stay. The only conversation you guys should have after this incident is about the baby you're bringing into the world.
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How did you guys figure this out? Did she contact you?? I can't help But feel like something is going on behind my back But I've kinda just come to terms with it and decided there's nothing I can do since he's always going to deny it. Even if he was caught.
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8377023 tn?1399509160
Any update?
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Omg i can't wait to hear what happened! When you get this over with just move on and remember his stupid face so you can laugh later!!
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That's what his cheating *** gets!
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Good! That's what his cheating butt gets :) just be smarter than to listen to his sorry a** anymore and move along girl! Good luck you and the baby deserve much better
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Any update?
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Test*
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Knapp do the text thing hahaha
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This is amazing!! Im late too but I cant wait to read the story after its all done!!!
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