miscarriage

[mehimthem]

Hi I went to the hospital today and there was no heart beat I was 9 weeks pregnant I am going to let my miscarriage come away from me naturally has any one had to do this as I'm not sure what to expect xx

[bella_kaylin]

I had a missed miscariage at 7 weeks with twins. They gave me misoprostol to induce labor so I could pass them naturally had a lot of bleeding but never had pain when I went back for my ultrasound they still had not passed so they gave me another round of the misoprostol and then the contractions started. It lasted 72 hours and my contractions were a min and a half long and 45 seconds apart we timed them the whole entire time and they were like that th whole 72 hours I also chose to go without pain meds. I couldn't do anything and I had clots come out the size of gold balls it was scary. What scared me more is I was concerned and called my ob about the clots and they said as long as they are smaller than the size od a lemon it was fine! Anyways I finally passed my babies after almost 2 months of them not finding a heartbeat. And I bled the whole 2 months. My advice would be tho when the contractions start you might want someone there or to let someone take care of your kids because it's just like real labor and you can't do anything during.  

[ayshab2]

Hi im so sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to you. I hope you recover real soon for the sake of your other children and family. Get well soon x

[mehimthem]

Hi iv had a really bad time I ended up having a blood transfusion and iv had surgery been in hospital 3 days its awfull worst experience of my life x

[Sheisjazzy]

Sorry about your loss.
I had a missed miscarriage at 12wks 5days. Baby stopped growing at 12wks
About 4 days after the ultrasound I had a natural miscarriage at home. Everything passed out on its own. It was painful but I had pain meds and there was lots of blood. I bleed for 9 days then after that I was fine
Good luck to you.

[muffy29]

I lost 2 n the first time was the worst one it took me 3 months to pass everything

[mehimthem]

Hi guys I have ended up in hospital as the bleeding was so bad it would not stop...I may need a blood transfusion but im really hoping I don't x

[NewMamaBugz12]

Im So sorry to hear about that:( prayers to you and hope everything goes easy and good for you.

[mehimthem]

Thank you all for your kind words and support...I have a general idea of what to expect now.. bleeding such alot and in huge amounts of pain hoping it won't go on much longer xx

[CrystalG318]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how you feel as the same thing happened to me last year. Babies heart stop beating  at 9 weeks as well. I had a natural miscarriage as well. I had severe cramping, bled for 5 weeks, and it took my body 3 weeks for hormones to come down. During my miscarriage, I did continue working but I made sure to have a lot of pads on hand. It was like a heavy period. Per my doctor, she had told me to wait 3 normal period cycles before I start trying again to make sure nothing stayed in the uterus for future pregnancy. She also said to continue taking prenatal pills to get my body ready for the next try. Lastly she said if I did have sex then to use protection for the time being. Just be strong momma. I know that's easier said than done. Again, I'm so sorry but stay strong.

[shorty0325]

Are you going for any other tests? I am currently pregnant with my second 25w 6d we didn't hear the heartbeat til 13 weeks. And my doctor tried at nine weeks. Good luck and I have also been thru the miscarriage thing as well

[diachong]

Sorry for your loss. I miscarried last July at 8 weeks. I was in really bad pain for about a day and had a lot of bleeding. I don't want to scare you but my baby came out whole. After that I had clots for about a day and bleeding and cramping for about 2 weeks. My doctor prescribed me vicodin because the pain was too much for me to deal with. I'm so sorry you're going through this but it'll get better with time.

[theoriginaljuliebug]

The experience is different for everyone, I cried every time I sat on the toilet and had to see blood, it was just a sad reminder for me, and it went on for 3 weeks. It drove me crazy I didn't think I would be ok, I actually sought counselling from mental health because it got to the point I couldn't eat or do anything but cry and cry, it was the worst emotional pain I ever experienced. Counselling helped but unfortunately the only other thing that helped me was the passing of time. I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. I hope you start feeling better soon. Oh also something that helped me get closure, I went online and got a certificate of life to acknowledge my baby because the hospital doesn't offer anything like that. I also got a bereavement package sent to me from the Church of the Holy Innocents, they have a shrine in their church just for angel babies, If that is your thing, I understand if not but thought I'd mention it. Hope this helps, again sorry for your loss.

[Kishma_]

I lost i love you last baby at 11 weeks. It was a bit painful with very heavy cramping and huge blood clots. It only lasted a day or so. I'm sorry for your loss and I wish you the best.

[xmissfaithx]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope your miscarriage is easy. I was fortunate enough to micarry without any pain whatsoever. I bled for a few days, like a period. No cramping. . . Then it was over.

[mehimthem]

Hi no they haven't said much about how long anything takes or what will happen im just confused I'm bleeding alot but in no pain x

[Desirree]

I'm so very sorry for your lost. Stay strong and keep your head up hun. I wish you the best of luck.

[Tavi12]

I'm sorry for your loss I've lost 2 angels myself did your doctor let you know that when you are having a missed miscarriage it can take weeks to pass the fetus?

[mehimthem]

Hi everyone Thanks for your messages. It's hard to stay in bed as I have other children but I'm trying not to leave the house much. I'm not in any pain yet really just want it over with so I can try and move forward from this I'm finding it so hard at the minute tho x

[kammilynn21]

Sorry to hear that! I had one last year at 9 weeks too. I had horrible severe cramping way worse than menstral cramps. It lasted for about 5 hours then I had to push it out hard. Get lots of rest after and make sure you have maxi pads.

[theoriginaljuliebug]

Sorry to hear the bad news

[theoriginaljuliebug]

Yes I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks back in December, just stay in bed because the more you are up and around the more you will bleed.

[MsLady8915]

I am very sorry to hear of your news.