my cousin saud I disgust her ... damn

[mumm2bee]

We got into an argument because she's the type of person that talks to people like they're dumb. She thinks she's superior to everyone who doesn't have a degree or title. Well I got sick of it and told her just because you got a high education doesn't give you the right to be little people. And of course she was talking to me like it was retarded and told me to shut up and go cry somewhere that my pregnancy makes me annoying  and no one likes me  especially now that I am pregnant and that I disgust her..and told me she doesn't give a **** if I don't ever speak to her again

[joannagonzalez]

Omg i hate people like that, those are people you wanna stay away from cuz there ego is too big its annoying how they gotya seprate themself from others just cuz they think they got it made them. Trust me they are the ones hurting themselves more. I cant understand how hard its for them to be humble

[mumm2bee]

Yea I know what you guys mean I feel the same way. Some times I feel like she needs to find someone that'll change her for the better because she has never had a serious relationship she's always finding excuses to say they aren't worthy of her. She's really 2 faced. I love her and all but sometimes it's too much what she does and says.. maybe she is a little bitter by the fact she hasn't found anyone. Idk what her deal is but she is always swearing that she's not the typical girl who's gonna end up pregnant and bow down to and my guy..like I said she makes herself feel better by making others feel stupid. We have different lives and I get that but never have I ever said the things she has said to me. I wouldn't be able to she's my family so I dony understand why she does it to me ? It *****

[lex_1238_789203]

My cousin n I were best friends since we were born n then she was a wench before my wedding when I had lost a lot due to stress n called me all kinds of stuff just making me feel worse now,the role is flipped n she's lost a lot more then me n is prob on drugs but I would never say anything she said to me to,her it's just rude but she is pretty much out of my life I didn't want,to deal with it anymore I still think bout the old Times but things and ppl change n sometimes,for the worse

[Cassi1992]

My cousin is like that towards me. But my cousin goes from guy to guy just to get free trips from them and dumps them. When i was pregnant with my first my cousin said to me "that my whole family will turn their back on me cause they cant stand having a **** of a niece, daughter, granddaughter, and sister. And that the baby will grow up to hate my guts." I told her off and then with this pregnancy she said to me again "i don't know why you keep opening your legs to guys just to use them and trap them in a relationship"
She didnt know my grandfather was there listening and he stepped in and told my cousin off.
My grandpa told me "just rub it off she's jealous that she cant keep a guy, she's  jealous that your ready to have your own family, and between us everyone in the family is starting to know her true colors and likes to hurt people"

And now we dont talk she tried telling my husband that i dont love him and that I'm using him and he didn't buy it he knows whats she's like and the sad thing is she's  28 and I'm 23. You have more power then her just stand your ground and ignore her. If she doesnt like that you're pregnant then let her hate she shouldn't bring you down

[firsttimemommie15]

Well if you're forced to be around each other or you just don't want to get her out of your life then I would just act like the things she says to you doesn't bother you. Just be very confident and don't give in to her, she wants to make you feel weak. Of course you can go home and cry about it afterwards if you want (that's what I would do) but just don't show her that her words affect you so badly because that's what she's trying to do.

[mumm2bee]

The hard part is ..we were practically raised together and I would never say anything like that to her. She's so prideful and very bitchy and really bitter

[firsttimemommie15]

Yep get her out of your life!! Unnecessary stress and trust me once you have your baby she'll be dying to meet him/her but you have the right to not let her and then she'll hopefully regret saying those mean things to you.. I wouldn't want someone like that in my daughter's life!

[ashrefra]

Then don't speak to her? I booted my dad and his whole side of the family out of my life 7 years ago,I don't regret it. Less stress and drama! She obviously has issues with pride and was just mad you said something, I wouldn't take it to heart.