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not really prego related :/ vent
Im 19yrs old prego with kid number one with my boyfriend of 4 yrs and my mom and him arent getting along right now :( im so stressed out because she doesnt want him here at all she says she hates his guts vus they got into a big fight he doesn't hold grudges like her andnow when the baby comes he cant live with melike we planned and i cant go to his vus his room is too small i cant fit anything in his moms house . We dont have mpney like that to get our own apartment by oct 4 ( my due date ) shes just making everything harder for me like if i move i cant take none of myfurniture ahe said like shes so mean all i could do is cry cus all i want is for her to be good with him for the babys sake at least . Now im stuck thinking what can i do cus i want him to be with his bany all the time and with me and live with me like qhen i come from the hospital i cant be going in and outta my house just so he can see the baby i need him to help me :( & he cant if she doeant let him :( pleaseee i just dont know anymore i dont regret my son i just regret the timeing :(
Don't trip off ur mom just do what u have to do for u & ur son, she should be happy that ur boyfriend is still around bcuz some dudes walk out on the mother of their child(Ren)
Yea i do work and im still working and he does wotk his *** off he does construction on a roof never has tims to sleep he makes about 15 $ an hr . We are tryingg its just hard when shes pulling me back she doesnt lef me froq up i understand im her kid but she doesnt let me do my own thing .
It is hard when you are a teen and preganet! Luckily my parents liked my ex husband so I didn't have these issues. But I did know someone who did. I know you cannot see it but your mother is trying to look out for you and do what she thinks is best for you. You have just spoke about the realationship your boyfriend and mother have and have said nothing about the relationship that you and he have or how his parents fell about the situation. The best things I could suggest to you is see if maybe your boyfriend, mom, and yourself could could try some counseling. If you cannot afford it keep looking around you should be able to find a place that goes by income or find a preacher. Even if religion is not your thing, they can still work with you as an outsider and help give you a look in to what the ussues might be! Also if it was my boyfriend/husband we did not live with anyone when we got preganet we got our own place, and if money is an issue he needs to be out there working as much as it takes to get a place even if it is three jobs. Yes it can be done, I did it for years for my child. You also can work unless you are having issues and the drs have told you not to. I am not trying to be harsh but I am older and wiser and have had to work my tail off to support myself and child/family! The best thing for you to do is to make peice with your mom until then stop worring yourself about him not being able to live with you because all you are doing is adding extra stress to you and the baby. There is a good chance if you calm down so will your mom. There is also a good chance mom sees something in this guy that you don't see yet and in time you will!
Ur bf needs to respect ur mom regardless ... If he don't like what she's saying walk away and let her talk to herself !! And ur mom need to learn that he's not her child u are! So stop disrespecting him! U have give respect to recieve respect! And it work both ways.. But if u want to move some of the babies stuff slowly but surely .. All that could fit at ur boyfriends house if that's where u want to be and ur mom will eventually come around... But I would stay home where I'm comfortable in my own house.. And let them deal with the bs! When the baby gets here hopefully things change if not.. Apply for housing and don't tell anyone.. And when ur place is ready let them both know and move..
yea i guess ima have to try to fit at least something cus literally nothing will fit . I would love to be in my home with everything tho but i guess i have to get over it :(
I'd just spend lots of nights with him n make room in his room for whatever can fit ...my bf talks to my mom like he's hers when they are into it I'm just like that's y'all problem n no ones leaving pregnant so I'm the boss now Dont stress me or my child out with this nonsense
He does respect her but she disrespects him first and she's wrong he sits there and takes it until hw gets tired of it
Everyone argues , when two people disagree on something what happens it turns into an arguement and if yu knew how my mom was yu wouldve yelled at her to she thinks shes always right and acusing people of everything its annoying . Just cus she doesntwant to be near him doesn't mean my husband cant be able to see his kid or take care of me its her fault he wont be able to shes not gunna help me only he will she sweard im having the baby with her
Maybe he should just respect ur mom and then he'd be allowed in her house, sounds fair to me. If anyone was loud n rude to me i wouldn't want them around either, right now u guys don't have a choice and for whatever reason u guyd cant get ur own place so thats the only thing u can do
Dang we'll my mom was same till I move but she still try to control stuff im sorry she probably get over it when the baby comes
Dang we'll my mom was same till I move but she still try to control stuff im sorry she probably get over it when the baby comes
I already tried talking with her . She has a mind of a child i swear she said that im trying to force her to be miserable and to be near him when she doesnt want to ever agin and i cry in her face and she still doesnt care shes not understanding . & katese where i live in njour waiting list is closed and im trying to apply for housing but they can only accept my application when the baby is born :/ more wait time its just so stressful i know my husband doeasnt mean to be loud and rude w. Her vut she provokes ppl and he cant control his temper but hes really sorry
Get on the waiting list for section 8 to get your own place they pay for it
You need to talk with ur mom n let her know that this is about the baby if u love the baby then please put up with the father for the baby
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