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venting. :/

I get so angry at my bf for watching porn and I find stuff like slutsspace.com andb stuff like idk if its bc in emotional or wat but it makes me sick to where I dont wanna sleep with him . Am I being over dramatic .?it just pisses me off bc he says its not him but its his phone. Ugh I get so upset . :/
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I actually have no problem with it, porn is normal putting it down it what makes them feel you are selfish I watch porn so does my boyfriend as long as it doesn't replace our sex I don't care but sometimes one of us isn't in the mood so the other person has the right to get them self off. I personally think people overreact about it but if it bothers you that much then say something if you are just getting mad just because you're starting unnecessary fights
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I hate it. My hubby is.old school and hasn't ever even been to a strip club. He thinks its disgusting and always tell me "that's the problem with your generation" he always complains about the half naked girls on TV and the things they say on it. For the most part he won't let our kids watch it. I love him and I love that he is this way! I used to get annoyed at my ex about porn but its amazing not to have that problem!!
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9326107 tn?1404192363
I don't even care if my man watches it I just hate that he does and then lies to me about it </3
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I used to get so mad about that before I was pregnant! But now I don't wanna have sex very often do he goes on porn every once in awhile! And im fine with it because I know I'm not in the mood anymore!  
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Yes thanks ladies for listning. I dont have any one to talk about it with . So thanks it means alot ♡
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And we only have sex like once a month bc I am never in the mood and he still don't watch it.
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I do not and will not tolerate my bf watching porn. Some thinks it's normal but it's not to me. I should be the only girl he sees naked. We can find different positions ourselves, more interesting than "learning new ways form porn". He respects me and doesn't watch it of he did I wouldn't be with him. That's just how it is for me.
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It didnt bother me before I got prego . But all of a sudden Iit bothers the hell out of me lol .
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Yeah It used to bother me so freaking much. The porn it self doesn't bother me as much it's the **** space sites your talking about that it leads them to to hook up with girls. And the denying it is the worst. I been in your shoes my bf used to do that alot I told him if I find it again it's over but that's my own boundary you can decide what your consequence Will be for him.
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9182722 tn?1403784024
My boyfriend is the same, but he only watches it when he takes a dump lol. I would get mad because it made me feel like crap cause we had sex 3 times in the morning, 3 times in the afternoon & 3 times at night. So he had no reason to watch it :/
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7552771 tn?1469929649
Porn is normal. I was the same way with my bf the first few years but he was very respectful and never watched it because of how it made me feel so maybe your bf should do the same. But after a few years our sex life got plain so we started being kinky and we watch porn sometimes not together just for when we have our own "personal" time. But if it makes you uncomfy right now then he should respect that at least he should delete the history. I don't like knowing when my bf watches it and he doesn't want to know when I do so we keep it to ourselves.
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Lol no it isn't his phone its him! And my hubby used to do the same until i told him to stop! Ever since he hasn't ! I used to get pretty pissed myself! Just talk to him.
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Porn is normal. Maybe you should want to get down and he wouldn't watch it as much the porn shouldn't bug you. What should is that he denies it. Of your on his history and he's saying it wasn't him. Then who else had his phone. He shouldn't be denying it. Sex and masturbation and porn are a normal part of human life.
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