Aa
Aa
A
A
A
Close
Avatar universal

feel alone

Im 16 and pregnant and if thats not hard enough my family is **** my sisters and i no longer talk because of my pregnancy and my mom is inbetween because she expects me to get over the fact that my little sister kicked me in the stomach so lately ive been staying with my bf and his family and my mom told me yesterday i need to find my own way around cause shes not my maid so idk how im supposed to get to my appointment on Thursday and i can feel that my bf's parents aren't trying to leave me hanging but arent tryng to be responsible for me which i completely understand i just feel like a burden i just dont know what to do
5 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
Im so sorry! Well i expected at 15 and had my baby at 16  & it was hard especially  cuz my dad wanted nothing to do with me at first and wanted  me to get an abortion right away! But as soon as the baby's born itll change! But the other ladies are right stay away from your  sister & do whatever possible to protect  your baby! It could be worse i hope everything  goes well stay strong  momma!
Helpful - 0
12226398 tn?1424524461
If your sister is kicking you purposely in the stomach, stay away from her! A baby shouldn't be killed on purpose especially from a member of your family!! If you can, stay w your bf family & you do anything you can for that baby. One of these days, they'll come around. For now, just have your bf work so he can be able to support you & your child. & if your early in your pregnancy, try to find a job & work. Don't let people who don't agree w you being pregnant stop you from having that child because babies are a blessing & some women aren't always blessed w babies. Took my bf & i almost a year to finally have a baby after trying for so long so DON'T let your sister make you have a miscarriage! One of the worst feelings ever, stay away from her & worry about yourself & your little blessing. I wish you the best of luck mama!
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Will your bf's parents take you to dr's appt? Can you try talking to your sister about her behavior? I agree that your mom is a support person that you will most likely need. Be 16 and pregnant is hard. Make sure you do what you can to help out as they will help you to not feel like a burden.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
My little sister is 14 yrs old whose threatened to punch me in my stomach on multiple occasions
Helpful - 0
5727805 tn?1378193052
I don't know how old your little sister is but it may have been an accident. My 1yr old has kicked me many times in the stomach and I can't hold a grudge against him. Lol. I would try to fix things with your mum.
Helpful - 0

You are reading content posted in the Pregnancy: Teen Community

Top Pregnancy Answerers
13167 tn?1327194124
Austin, TX
Learn About Top Answerers
Popular Resources
Get information and tips on how to help you choose the right place to deliver your baby.
Get the facts on how twins and multiples are formed and your chance of carrying more than one baby at a time.
Learn about the risks and benefits of circumcision.
What to expect during the first hours after delivery.
Learn about early screening and test options for your pregnancy.
Learn about testing and treatment for GBS bacterium.