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Just venting!!!
Okay so I'm a ftm, this is also my husbands first child as well. Lately, things have been crazy, especially with my mood swings & his attitude. I try to explain things to him so he can try to understand but he gets upset & feels I'm just being ungrateful. For example, the other day, he bought me a breakfast sandwich with sausage & I explained to him previously that sausage for some reason has been making me nauseous so I didn't eat it & he gets upset. Then today, I get home from work & I he made spaghetti although previously, I explained to him that anything with tomato sauce gives me heartburn! So I didn't eat that either & he gets upset with me! I'm trying so hard not to stress & he just haven't been understanding of my pregnancy & just feels like I'm being a brat with everything.
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1. You are perfectly fine. I agree with the same feelings you have towards those foods. They make me nauseous too. So you are definitely not a bray or anything close. Just to up your mood you are great and making a little life inside of your body.
2. He probably feels just like nothing he does is good enough. It's not your fault at all.

I understand your dilemma a little. My husband feels like he can't please me with surprises anymore or cook certain things. It's okay. Just take a deep breath and talk to him and just explain that you will get through this nauseous stuff, but for now you just need some support. Good luck sweetie. It'll work out.
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You're right, thank you! We talked it over, I feel better now :)
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