Making a decision for a happy life

[Newmom11o]

Hey ladies Am confused and i really need advice for u . I got married and my relation with my husband was fine tile I got pregnant and arguments start to the point where I couldn't stand him anymore , so he stopped talking to me n we live in same house he used to always stress me out so I decided that we should take a break I left his house and went to my parents house . Now I been away from him for a month so far i tried calling him cuz i missed him ;') and texting him but he ignores me . Am trying to work things out but he is not giving me any chance . I heard from people that he wants to end our marriage . So I don't know what to do now should I just calm down and wait til I have the baby to see if wat I heard is true and give him a chance he might change or just end the marriage myself and let him live his life and I move on  find me a job to support myself and to be ready for my baby  and be a single mom instead of waiting for nothing ?  

[Newmom11o]

Thanks ur right ill wait and see if things change but I already send him a text  and I apologize to him n told him to start a new page and not to think of anything but our baby and his future but he ignored :(  n every time I call or text he dont pick up I try to work things  out but it seems he dont care so I stopped calling him n texting him ,

[libbyz]

Don't give up yet. My husband and I had many rough patches through out my first pregnancy. I wasn't sure if we were gonna make it at times. But I think u guys need to really talk. Talk to him and tell him how u feel and apologize for the things u have done wrong. U guys are going through a lot right now. The first year of marriage is extremely hard. And then to add a pregnancy on top off it. U guys are very stressed.

Good luck I hope for the best for u and ur family. ; )

[Newmom11o]

@ libbyz 5 months :)

[libbyz]

I would find out from him what he wants to do. I wouldn't listen to others people. Its sounds like u guys need to have a conversation anyways. How long have u been married