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Anyone else feel awful for wanting their pregnancy to be over?

Hi, I'm 21 and a ftm. I'm 34\35 weeks (my doctor keeps changing my due date) and I am miserable. I love being pregnant and I love feeling Luke move but I am so ready for him to vacate my tummy it's unreal. I had no morning sickness up until this week, I'm sore everywhere,I can NEVER sleep or I'm sleeping all the time, I'm having these pains that feel like a bladder infection but it doesn't hurt when I pee, I have the worst heartburn possible and I just want to cry all the dang time. Every little thing hurts my feelings or makes me mad. I feel like I'm going crazy! Please tell me I'm not alone. I feel awful for feeling this way but I want this pregnancy to hurry up and be over! My arms actually ache when I think about holding Luke. Is this normal?????
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Your not alone am only 21weeks and I love my carson but am over being pregnant.  I had my other son when I was 17 and that pregnacy was a breeze I never got sick. But this one I have morning sickness everyday and have had it since I found out I was pregnant am counting down the days to july 14  
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7670156 tn?1401987192
I heard it kinda does this during semesters: 1) sickness tied. 2) aww baby kicked 3) get baby out!
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ur defiantly not alone im 22 abd im 37weeks pregnant i have problems as well gestational diabetes and high blood pressure. im currently on bedrest bc my blood pressure after taking pills only starts down when laying down. im sob'dayover this pregnacy since i was 6 months. im 37weeks which is considered full term so im trying to find ways to go into labor which i...know i should wait but I'm so over it. i love him to death but I'm at my breaking point i can't do it anymore either. i try telling him every morning to just come out but he won't listen to me haha. we can do this girl were at the end point!
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I felt the same way with my third pregnancy the pain you may be feeling could be a uti that lead to a kidney infection I had one and I hurt to walk or sit or anything but it didn't hurt to pee. I got a prescription and within two days the pain was gone.. but I know how you feel with loving your belly and your baby but wanting them out so you can hold them and show everyone the beautiful little baby you made.. before you know it the pregnancy will be over you will miss your belly and your little baby won't be so little any more it's crazy how fast time goes believe me..enjoy the little things good luck and congrats!
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6519447 tn?1391770769
Your not alone. Im 35. I have an 18 year old son got pregnant with him when I was 16. I never planned on having any more children.
I have fibromyalgia and take medicine so I always said I couldn't have any more children cuz the pain would be hard for me to be caring for another child especially at my age. But God had other plans for me. I was so shocked and numb when I found out but now im happy but this pregnancy has been very hard on me. On top of having fibromyalgia.  I have had allergies since I got pregnant called Pregnancy Rhinitis.  I had a sore throat for over a month. I have SPD Pain. Im anemic. Ive had two yeast infections :/ i had morning sickness bad in beginning I still get sick sometimes and I just started  having acid reflux.  My son jokes with me and tells me im old lol and I guess you can say that
At least I still look young just wish I could feel normal.
When I was pregnant with my first son I didn't have any problems besides stress his dad gave me. So no your not alone. Im almost 33 weeks I can't wait to have my baby I have 50 days to go. Im scared. I forgot how to take care of a baby. Everything seems new to me
So its really scary for me.
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